White woman/black man, black woman/white man sexuality. Different experts and commentators have ascribed sexual satisfaction as the major reason white women date black men A white girl on a popular chat group girlsaskguys , recently posted a question: ‘‘Ladies, have you ever had sex with a black guy?’’ The responses she received were as varied as they were revealing: one said no, but she looked looked forward to it, and wanted to know if the enquirer has done so, for her to reveal the experience. Another revealed she has done it with many black guys, that she ‘‘enjoyed most of it’’ and described black men as confident, and recommended every white girl should try it Investigations revealed that white men are better than black men in that department.
Hallo people. I don't really know why me and the other girls are so attracted to black men, or how it has become a trend at german women. I only can speak for myself, and i know the opinions and experiances from my friends and pales, i hang up with. Surely it's about their dark skin, and mostly i like a black mens apearance. Sometimes it's the dark voice.
It also could be the way he moves, his behavior, or how he smells... Most of them are confident and a women gets all the attention she needs, and within there is also the sexual aspect. Before you ask: If i can proof the big myth, you'll know what i mean, it's always a bonus. For now, it's all i have to say about this point. Another reason for some german women may be the history, knowing about the persecution and the genocide by the nazis.
But that's not me and i think it's not the mean reason. In the last 70 years most German man and women have learned to be more tolerant and open minded. Remember the long period of occupation in germany. GIs were based in germany, many of them have married a german women and have a family. That's why the german women learned about the Afro-American and African culture or even the sub-culture of both.
Most german women already have some interrests in black men and his livestyle and culture. So german girls got a good basement to flirt with these guys.
What i mean is: In the end it's all about the feelings and desires we have. Feelings and desires we all know about, and which make us fall in love, or get attracted to a man or women. People have preferences and desires, also in sexuality and relationships. It realy makes no difference if people are more attracted to white, black or any other ethnicy.
It's always a thing about prejudices, wishes or the desires we have. Our hopes and our desires are depending on the prejudices. But there are also some prejudices who are not so natural and helpful like the other ones. This will be the border to racism or other evil thoughts. The best way to destroy any prejudices or a myth, is to know if it's real and to proof it.
Me and other women have done this. I've tried, to find some studies and informations about how many women are attracted to black guys. Also if women are married with black men, or want to have sex with them. The problem: Not all of them are serious. In germany unfortunately, there seems to be no studies or surveys, including german women who are married or want to have sex with a black men.
The studies and surveys i've found, also the serious ones, are different in their results. A study says 87% (!?) of all American women fantasize about having sex with a black guy. Similar studies about this question shows 51% and 42% of all white American women. Studies in Europe released 54% and 63% of all european women are attracted to black men. European studies exposing, it's deciding in which country the women spend her live.
As i have said before: I got no studies or survays, how german girls think about marriage or dating/have sex with a black male. Pertaining to my own experiences and the perceptions of my friends and my people, i will estimate the number of german women with “dark fantasies“ surely about 60%.
Some of you might wonder about my estimate. Please remember, no one of us share all of his thoughts, opinions or desires with each other. If we would be honest all the time, we couldn't be in relationships or have friends. Sometimes we must hide our real feelings to maintain our relationships.
Long days and pleasent nights... PS: Here some links you may like: -youtube: -rp-online: -welt.de: -streetinsider.com: .uk: -topdocumentaryfilms.com: OK. As a black man - I'm going to answer this honestly. Most white women don’t want black men. Black men are not as popular sexually as the myths claim us to be. There are many who believe that most white women have a secret fetish for black men. A discreet preference that they hide only because of widespread shaming and racism This isn’t completely untrue.
Yeah we all know there is a small % of white women who have a . However, the truth is that the typical black male is not that hot of a ticket as far as white women are concerned. There are a substantial number of white women who will eliminate a black male from contention on sight and have no interest in dating a black man.
And often even the ones that would do so, would only do so under ideal circumstances (very handsome, super tight game, money style, budget) The fact is that for the most part, the bulk of white (or in fact) non-black women just are not that obsessed with black men as a whole. The stigma of dating a black man for a white woman is enough to put them off and if a white women is with a black man and this results in kids ?
She is vastly reducing her options for a future partner. White guys won't let her back in. So here you have a WW with bi-racial kids. Those kids don't go away. They have to carry their bi-racial kids around white society.
So that means their parents have to suffer. The kids suffer. The women suffers. Now I have never met one WW with bi-racial kids who would change it.
And even if a white women is just with a black man many white men (And non black men) instinctively recoil when they see a non-black girl with a black man. Girls understand this and feel this, and so many, who may be attracted, shy away from dating one, or else try to keep any former black boyfriends from being known about by later, non-black boyfriends. Many white and Asian men that I've known have been quite repulsed by an otherwise attractive girl if they find out she has dated black men.
I’m just given you the cold hard truth. Questions ? " White men date outside there race. They have access to all races of women" True. The parents of non-white women generally find it at minimum acceptable for their daughters to bring a white guy home. If it were a black guy, doubters and haters of all kinds would make their opinions known IMMEDIATELY before they even met the guy.
I have rarely, if ever have witnessed a woman of another race threatened to be cut off entirely just for being with a white guy. No one person can answer this question. I suggest you befriend a black woman and ask her. Then befriend another black woman and ask her. Continue doing this until you have a sample. Then you can say, of the black women I know here are their responses/experiences. Easy. Theres no way you or even I (a black woman) can speak for an entire race of people.
It’s impossible. I am a white girl who is mostly attracted to black guys. Whenever I state this people look at me shocked, never having guessed that I would like a black guy. After their shock they tend to ask: “do you only like black guys?” I never know how to exactly answer this question.
Yes, I am more attracted to black men as a whole, but I am open to all races and all kinds of people. Then, I get asked this question: “why do you like black guys?” The simple answer: I just do. People have their own preferences and are attracted to all kinds of different people. I don’t exactly have an answer to this, I’ve always been more attracted to black men.
The longer answer: (please be aware that the following statement is based off of my own experiences and I am not trying to talk about one race as a whole). I have dated my fair share of white guys, but I don’t think I’ll ever date another again. I am very independent, and the white guys I’ve dated were quite controlling and easily became jealous whenever they saw me talking to other guys (even in a non flirtatious way).
Maybe I’m just picking the wrong guys, but my experience in dating black guys have been much better. They weren’t controlling and they understood that I have guy friends and I enjoy talking to people, guys too - and the fact that I’m more sexually attracted to black guys may help with this also (personal preference). Overall, I think people have their own preferences, and there is nothing wrong with that.
I’m a white girl who likes black guys, my friend from Thailand likes white guys, I have a friend from Mexico that has only ever dated Asian guys, etc. Who knows, maybe one day I’ll end up marrying a white guy, but for now I’ll stick with the black guys.
best black man date white girl - Why white women are s3xually attracted by black men; black women by white men
By Oghene Omonisa There is evident increase in interracial dating in the US, and also across Europe, many of which lead to marriage. This trend has seen black men becoming more attracted to white women, and white men becoming attracted to black women.
Since the 1967 US Supreme Court decision that fully legalised interracial marriage in all the states, this practice has not witnessed as much of such cases as since 2000, according to statistics. Interracial lovers In 1970, revealed a Stanford University study, there were only 65,000 marriages involving African-Americans and whites. In 2005, that number had grown to 422,000. Among all interracial couples, they represented two percent of marriages in 1970.
In 2005, that number was up to seven percent of the 59 million marriages in the United States. So, what is responsible for this growing trend? “Some of the growth can be accounted for by declining societal prejudice towards – and less shame experienced by – people in interracial marriages”, says encyclopedia.com.
It goes on to add that couples tend to start a relationship based on four important reasons: the attractiveness of the partner, shared common interests, shared similar entertainment interests, and socio-economic similarities. Sexual attraction Of all these, reports indicate that the attractiveness, comfortability and compatibility of the couple’s sexuality is the primary reason for interracial dating, and every relationship that leads to marriage starts with dating.
The choice, says one expert, mainly lies with the female partner, as a woman has the final say in every relationship: either to accept or turn down a proposal. As sexual satisfaction and compatibility are of paramount importance to their happiness, her happiness lies on how much her man satisfies her romantically. “Partners in interracial relationships reported significantly higher relationship satisfaction compared to those in intraracial relationships”, says Research Gate, a US-based study group.
However, no differences were found for conflict or attachment style, and no differences found between interracial and intraracial relationships in relationship quality, conflict patterns, relationship efficacy, coping style, and attachment. White woman/black man, black woman/white man sexuality Different experts and commentators have ascribed sexual satisfaction as the major reason white women date black men. “Mudshark” is the word most white guys in the US and across Europe use in describing such women, though in contempt as they insist the women engage in it out of low esteem as they are not good enough for the white guys.
Other reasons given by these men are that these women hold the misconception that white men are not masculine enough compared with the blacks, which lead them to experiment with black guys; that the white women also do it in rebellion against the old prejudice of whites against blacks, and in the process drawing attention to themselves. One white male respondent on a popular Facebook chat group even accused the mudsharks of longing for the ‘‘filling’’ mythical black manhood, based on the belief that blacks are more virile and better endowed ‘‘down there’’. The position of these whites has been that the relationships do not last long and often end in heartbreak for the white women.
However, this cannot be entirely acceptable, considering the growing number of interracial marriages between white women and black men in the US and across the Atlantic. This clearly smacks of envy on the part of the whites. A white girl on a popular chat group girlsaskguys, recently posted a question: ‘‘Ladies, have you ever had sex with a black guy?’’ The responses she received were as varied as they were revealing: one said no, but she looked looked forward to it, and wanted to know if the enquirer has done so, for her to reveal the experience.
Another revealed she has done it with many black guys, that she ‘‘enjoyed most of it’’ and described black men as confident, and recommended every white girl should try it. The enquirer then asked: “So are they bigger in the pants or is this myth?” To which the I-Have-Done-It responded: “It’s basically a myth, but as with any race of guys, some do come along with very large sholongs.
Can’t say that more of the black race has them than any other, though!” Still on girlsaskguys, a white male member posted: “Do black men have a higher stamina and length compared to white guys? I have just had my black girlfriend, and I am feeling pressured!” And he explained his predicament: “I have just got together with a black girl.
The first one I have been with and I’m her first white guy. We were talking about sex the other night and she put some doubts in me because she was like she had only been with black men and she said that they are better equipped and last longer. Now, I don’t have problems in my ability or myself.
Its just made me feel pressured. Am I correct to feel this, and was her statement correct? Just feeling a bit pressured.” One white male respondent posted: “It’s a myth.” Another posted: “I’m not black and I have a horse cock”, and added: “They call me ‘cockzilla’.” It is clear that the controversy of black men having better libido than white men has contributed to the drive for white women seeking out black men. However, can the same be said about foreplay and romance between a black man and a white man?
Investigations revealed that white men are better than black men in that department. That perhaps explains why the number of black women dating whites is rising almost at the same rate as white women urging for black men, as the black women apparently find the white men exotic, fascinating and exciting in foreplay, especially oral sex, before the real thing.
Writing on the chat group, NIA (Nigerians in America), some years back, Dr. Sabella Ogbobode Abidde, a US-based Nigerian writer posted about a meeting with friends and her ideas for her next work: “I am going to tell the story of two men, one white and one black, and their experiences with sexing outside their race.” Then she posted her admiration for oral sex and foreplay as promoted by whites, especially white men.
Also from girlsaskguys was the poser from a white girl: “Do black guys like to give oral sex just as much as white guys do?” And the inquiry: “I’ve had white and black boyfriends and I noticed that all my white boyfriends had no problem going down on me but some of my black boyfriends just would not do it. Why is that? Is it just that the black guys I picked don’t give oral sex? Or maybe the white boyfriends, for some funny reasons, are more into pleasing their girl than the black guys?” One white female respondent posted: “Not to be racist but black guys tend to be more cocky and better than what others think of them ….
This goes for the friends and people I know. They say ‘I’m too good to eat pussy and shit’, while the white guy is more of a gentleman.” Then another white female posted: “Don’t make an assumption about all black people just from the ones that you know.” There was almost uniformity in their comments that white men are far better than black men in foreplay and romance because the whites are naturally warm and caring and are out to please their women almost selflessly.
There is no doubt that, while white women enjoy foreplay, they are more attracted by the virility of the black man; and while black women equally like their fellow strong and long-lasting blacks, they find the patience and gentlemanliness to please them by the whites to be romantically exciting.
However, statistics has shown that there are more cases of white women going for black men than vice versa. Investigations have revealed that, in the US and across Europe, many male migrant black Africans, especially illegal migrants, take advantage of this trend to watch out for white women, and eventually get married to them, in order to secure citizenship status or resident permit.
Human hormones Can these rising cases of racial attraction be traced to the human hormones which is said to be produced in an organism and transported in tissue fluids such as blood to stimulate specific cells or tissues into sexual behaviour? The role of the human hormones in sexual desire has often posed challenges to sex experts and researchers. What drives sexual desire? What is the root cause of that urge to have sex and how?
Different theories have been propounded by different experts. They all boil down to the hormones. However, unlike what some believe, there is nothing like male and female hormones, according to medical experts at the Inner Balance Health Centre, Loveland, Colorado, US; a claim which has also been supported by other medical experts.
In its April 20, 2012 newsletter, Inner Balance Health Centre researchers stated that “Technically, these two categories (male and female hormones) don’t exist.
The sex hormones: estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone are found in everyone but in different proportions and with unique functions. It is the balance of all three hormones in the body that promotes health and sexual vitality.” However, estrogen is usually thought of as a “female” hormone because in women, it is made in the ovaries, adrenal glands, and fat cells and its levels are higher in those of reproductive age.
In healthy amounts, it promotes growth of the uterine lining during the first half of the menstrual cycle, contributes to sexuality in many ways, helps prevent bone loss, and works toward maintaining good cholesterol levels, according to experts. In men, small amounts of estrogen are made as a by-product of testosterone conversion.
And testosterone, considered the male hormone because it is produced in the testicles and to a lesser degree in the adrenal glands, helps build muscle tone, increases energy, contributes to a healthy libido, and aids in sperm production. Levels decline with age and with high stress in the body. The third sex steroid frequently mentioned for sexual health is pregesterone, which in women, is produced in the ovaries and through ovulation. It basically balances the unwanted effects of estrogen.
So, can this new trend in interracial relationship be traced to the hormones? Investigation revealed that medical and sex experts have not devoted time to relate the hormones to why white women are now attracted to black men and black women attracted to white men. However, it is apparent that sexual appeal and compatible sexuality are the major driving force behind this trend.
Hey fellas, if you’re thinking about dating a white girl — which is a learning experience that all black men should undergo at some point in their lives — it’ll expose you to racism in ways that only a trained eye can recognize. To further this premise, I’ve come up with 10 examples based on some of my romantic encounters with white women, the first of which included one of them looking to her left and to her right before kissing me in public.
It was 2013 at the time, many moons ahead the Jim Crow era, and still, as a white woman, she instinctively made sure that no one else could see us sharing a kiss.
In that moment, I thought to myself, “Bitch, you ain’t crossing the the street. What’s your deal?” But looking back, I shouldn’t have been offended — she was only protecting herself from the disapproving stares that come whenever there’s a sighting of a mixed-race couple, especially the vanilla-chocolate variety.
Check out the other 10 examples below: Racism: Don’t Date That White Girl, The World Will Hate You Dating a white girl will reveal how much of a nigger you actually are (to the white people watching).
When you enter a room with her, even the most liberal white observer will spend an extra second or two watching the way you interact. It won’t seem natural. And plus, viewing mixed-race couples in person draws a much greater psychological response from racists than catching a glimpse of this imagery showcased on a billboard or in a magazine. Even if they aren’t watching for long periods, you’ll experience discomfort like you never have before.
Racism: Don’t Date That White Girl, Her Friends Will Judge You As the token black guy, her friends will analyze your every move to confirm stereotypes and satisfy personal curiosity. If you behave too much like the typical “Negro”, it will elicit their judgement.
If you fail to exhibit a sufficient amount of blackness, they will respond by asking probing questions about your upbringing. Racism: Don’t Date That White Girl, She’ll Pour On The PDA In Public For Attention In public, she will lay it on thick with her affection to prove that she doesn’t notice the other people watching.
This will also be an attempt to counteract the instinctive prejudice brewing within her subconscious. (Side Note: The darker you are, and the fairer she is, the more intently others will stare). Racism: Don’t Date That White Girl, She’ll F*uck Your Brains Out, But She Wont Marry You After your “undefined” relationship with her reaches its inevitable end — as 90 percent of all black/white couples fail to go the distance — you’ll look up several months later, or even earlier depending on her dating habits, and she’ll be in the arms of a white guy (thereby satisfying her subconscious desire to socialize within her own race).
Racism: Don’t Date That White Girl, She Doesn’t Understand Your Struggle As A Black Man (Doesn’t Care Either). When you approach her with complaints about the racism you experience at work or anyplace else, she’ll initially put forth effort to create the illusion that she’s understanding and sympathetic, but eventually your complaining will elicit responses of annoyance and insensitivity. This will lead to her flipping the script and accusing YOU of being racist and narrow-minded. It’s a tactic that white people use whenever they want to avoid answering questions about racism, or owning up to the part they play.
Racism: Don’t Date That White Girl, She Thinks You’re Simpleminded (By Nature) If you happen to lack intelligence or sophistication, which some might argue would disqualify you from even being eligible to date white women, there will come times when she speaks to you with a condescending tone, as if you know nothing, like she would a young child.
In this scenario, her goal, you’ll notice, will be to ‘civilize’ you in a manner that’s suitable for her family, friends and colleagues. It would be her version of transforming a field slave to a house nigga. Racism: Don’t Date That White Girl, She Will Only Expose Your Kids To Her Culture (No BET) If you procreate with a white partner, she won’t be in a position, nor is it likely that she’ll be open to the idea of exposing your offspring to black culture more than her own culture.
Don’t be fooled when she observes all of the accessories decorating your niece’s hair and says “how creative”. That’s code for “ghetto”.
Is Dating a White Girl A "Trophy" For Black Men?