Questions to Ask a Girl ― Here is a small manual! Find out what all you can ask, as some things are better to know at the very beginning of your friendship You’ve already looked up all the questions about favorite books and movies, and you’re scared they could make the conversation go quiet. So, here is a small manual! Find out what all you can ask, as some things are better to know at the very beginning of your friendship dating questions to ask a girl. This will make you laugh a lot, and it will be clear to her that she is dealing with a humorous guy. A good question to ask a girl, which you definitely cannot afford to miss. 20. What does your name mean?. 30 Good Questions to Ask a Girl. 1. Which perfume do you use? You smell so nice!
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These important questions beg for an answer. They reveal a lot about what that person expects, and what that person is looking for in terms of their dreams, their spouse, their leisure time, and their ideals. 1. In an ideal relationship, what would you spend the majority of your time doing? You need to be with someone who you would actually hang out with, someone who enjoys the same things as you. Yes, you can share each other’s different interests, but that’s why you need to ask this question, to see if you would enjoy adapting to their interests or if they would enjoy adapting to yours.
2. What do you expect from a guy/girl you’re dating? or What do you expect from a man/woman in your life? You’d be surprised with the answers to this question.
As humans, we assume that people have the same expectations that we do. Unfortunately, men and women are wired differently. That’s why this question is important. Not only are we different because of our genders, but we’re different because each person’s past experience helps mold their expectations and each person’s past experience is different.
3. What is your idea of living a good life? Here you get a taste of what motivates the other person. You’ll get a taste of what drives them, what gives their life meaning and significance. It also gives you a view of what a future would look like with them. 4. What does a good relationship look like? It’s always nice to know what the other person views as ideal in their eyes.
You can see if you’re looking for the same thing in terms of what makes a relationship good. 5. What are you looking for in a guy/girl? Let them name the top three qualities that are non-negotiable.
6. What have you learned from your past relationships? Ideally, it would be nice to go through each of your past relationships, not to relive pain or point out the mistakes of your , but it’s important to know that the person you’re with has learned from their own mistakes and isn’t just moving forward ready to make the same repeat mistakes with you.
—————————————- Give the person time to think about these questions. They need thought. Most of them can’t be answered right away. These are deep questions that could lead to lengthy conversations, but it’s important to know what you’re getting into. Failed expectations are what causes a lot of disappointment. If you know what the other person expects and desires from the onset, you know if you’re able and/or willing to meet the other person’s needs and wants.
It beats questions like, “What’s your favorite color?” In the scheme of things, questions like that don’t matter. You also need to know about how the other person feels about kids, (yes, no, number, who raises them) lifestyle locations, (city, suburbs, country, nomad) , (soon, later, never) religion, (same, different, important, not important) family, (close, absent, involved) recreation, (outdoorsy, night life, traveler, sporty…) Those things can be discovered when you’re dating already.
Some other ways to find out more about the person you’re dating is to take a , the Strengths Test in or go to or and create a fictional profile, answering all the questions together.
Relationships are work. It’s always going to be challenging to try to love someone who’s different, but the more information you have, the more prepared you’ll be.
Wow… I’m going to have to disagree with some of the advice you’re giving guys. Don’t get me wrong, it’s cute advice… but it’s not practical. Emotions are not a choice… that includes attraction. A guy can’t help who he is attracted to. On the other hand… chicks can’t help who they are attracted to either. No amout of “common sense” or “rational” you try to put behind it… you will never be able to “talk” your emotions out of the way that they do. Again… cute advice… but impractical… • I would have to agree with about 99% of the information here.
To love someone (who they really are) is a daily choice. Yes, you can’t help who you are attracted to or love, but you can’t really fall in love with someone if you don’t know the answers to the above questions. If more people new the answers to the above questions, they would either not be married or would not get divorced. But then again, some people don’t want to go deep. And marriage is not for everyone. • I agree that failed expectations cause disappointment. That’s a good reason to be yourself and not try to fit into somebody else’s idea of a good partner.
Readers might enjoy this article: “Good Conversation Starters: 3 Sure-Fire Tips to Flirt Successfully and Break the Ice with Women or Men.” Go to • To someone who said that most of those question could’nt be answered I can say that maybe that was the wrong person you asked all that then ðŸ™‚ everyone who has some common sence and thinks a little bit could answer that.
And if he/she cant do that, then well…. in that case I think I would have my answer if that person is worth my attention ðŸ™‚ • Laura, so true. The kind of person who is willing to invest some thought and provide you with answers shows that he is more serious and thinking more long term than the person who can’t answer them or doesn’t want to.
It’s not that they can’t be answered. It’s that some people aren’t willing to answer them. It also shows that the person actually cares about relationships and how to make them work. • So J prom is coming up and I really want to ask this girl.
Shes been a friend for the last 4 years, but shes been going out with one of my friends for the last 1-1.5ish, its just that they have broken up at the mo and no one knows if they are gonna get back together. But since they have done that like 3 times already, idk what will happen.
But anyway, Idk what I should do. I don’t wanna offend my friend (the guy). I asked da gall what her plans were for J prom and she was like, I’d go if someone asked me.
I wanted to do it right there and then but I controlled my self lol. What should I do?? • Rahul, ASK HER! her comment was a hint to ask her! But if you don’t want to offend your guy friend, run it by him and let him know your plans to ask her out. Don’t ask him for permission (as she does not belong to him and they are broken up) but just let him know your plans so he isn’t shocked when you go together.
If he is like “That’s not cool! Don’t ask her to the prom!” then you have to say, “Sorry, she’s a free woman, she’s going to have to make that decision.” • The questions are relevant & important but not sure if the other person would run the other way if you asked these questions to early on and particularly if you’ve only been a couple of dates. It may seem like you are getting too serious, too quickly. I think at some level you do start getting indications of answers to these questions naturally, in general conversation.
So for example: 1. In an ideal relationship, what would you spend the majority of your time doing? When you are asking someone what their interests are, how was their week etc and of course how available is this person to meet with you – you start getting an idea if he has time and space in his life for a relationship… Without actually having to ask the question directly. • Hey Datingadvicefromagirl, In addition to your post I was wondering, Many people have questions related to their love life.
Some go through tough time with their partner whereas some find it very difficult to find a life partner. Problems related to love life can make it very difficult for you to concentrate on your personal and professional life. That is the reason why many people to make use of free tarot reading and free psychic online to know how to deal with their love life.
Keep up the good work • Pingback: • So idk if my friend just likes me as just that or as a could be more! He tOok me to prom and we had a great time but now when we hang out it seems like there could be more to it! But we r never alOne and when we get talking and have a moment it gets interupted!
The worst part is he’s going to college next year and I will only get to see him on holidays! Wut do I do!?!? • Issabell Ryder, He needs a little help if he likes you. But not too much help:) Tell him you’ll miss him when he goes off to college. See if he takes it from there. You only want to give “hints” that you’re interested, not outright tell him.
Let him muster up the courage to tell you first. Give him a chance to man up… but help him out a little by giving SUBTLE hints that something could possibly be there for you. Does that make sense? Do you need more examples? • Yes it makes sence and thanx for helping!
ðŸ™‚ but a few examples wouldn’t hurt…how do u subtletly hint and not seem like u r waiting for something or seem like u r hiding something? Plus he is a really shy kid! He is sorta breaking out of his shell a little now, but even his mom told me he is more himself with me than with most people.
And r families r going on a trip together and I’m having a hard time deciding if I really like him or if it’s just because he is leaving! On the last day of school we signed each others year books just like every year but this time it want just a signature, I told him I was going to miss him while he was gone and that I had fun at prom. We switched back and i read his and it said pretty much the same thing. Is this just a friendly relationship or does it have a little bit of potential?
• Issabell Ryder, I think before you give any subtle hints, you should first make sure you really like him romantically and not just as a friend, otherwise you’re going to be wasting your time and leading him on. Guys only like a “tease” if there’s hope that it can be more.
If it’s just a tease just to be a tease, it’s frustrating. How do you know if you like him more than just a friend? Does the thought of kissing him make you happy or does it feel neutral or even gross? Do you find yourself wanting to not just be around him, but do you find yourself wanting to be close to him, and does the idea of his affection or even a touch of your arm give you shivers in a good way? Those are a few questions you can ask yourself.
Once you figure out that, and if you realize you DO like him more than a friend, there are ways to hint that he should “make the first move.” yes, he may be shy, but don’t let him get away with having to make the first move just because he’s shy. He needs to man up just like every other guy.
You could be bold and ask him, “Has the thought of kissing me ever crossed your mind?” Wait for his answer. See, this looks like you’re making the first move, but in actuality, you’re not telling him you’ve thought about it. You’re just trying to tease him with the idea and see if he’ll use the opportunity to make a bold move, like actually kiss you.
Worst case scenario, if he says, “no,” just play along with it, “Oh, come on:) So you really think it’s possible for guys and girls to ‘just be friends?'” This way you don’t take it as a “rejection,” because it isn’t a rejection. I mean you are friends, it’s just asking his opinion. Throwing it out there like that will show your confidence but also give you a chance to give him an “in.” If he says, “Yes, I have thought of it,” Put him in the limelight and make him squirm a little.
Ask him, “Like, have you thought about it once? or like, periodically? or like it keeps you up at night?” and smile teasingly. And if he’s like, “Why do you ask?” or if he’s like, “Have you thought about it?” Tell him, “I’m the one doing the questions here Mr.” or “Don’t turn this around on me!” Then pause for a second and tell him, “All I can say is, I wouldn’t be completely opposed to it.” Then smile and completely change the subject. “Hey, wanna go get some ice cream?” Issabell, I guess that was ONE pretty big, comprehensive example instead of a couple of little examples:) Good luck!
• Independent Girl, Good question. You can find a guy who loves you more than his own life if he’s willing to wait for marriage to have sex. You’ll find a guy who loves you more than he loves his own life if he believes in God and fears and respects him.
God is love, and if you find a man who not only knows and believes in God, but actually takes him SERIOUSLY, then you’re at a good starting point. You can tell if he is a loyal person by seeing how he treats people.
Does he only do kind things to get something in return? Then he does things for his own gain. Does he do the right thing when nobody is looking? Does he do the right thing even if he doesn’t get credit? Is he honest? Is he sincere even about the smallest things? Is he more concerned with making things more convenient for others or for himself? Does he live two different lives or is he the same with everyone? Do others respect him? Does he have any secrets? These are all questions to help you find your answer.
• Have you ever thought about writing an e-book or guest authoring on other sites? I have a blog based on the same subjects you discuss and would love to have you share some stories/information.
I know my subscribers would appreciate your work. If you are even remotely interested, feel free to shoot me an e mail. • Hi, I met this woman online she live in louiaiana and I live in Cali. She told me at first that she did want talk and waste her phone time with someone that live far.
I understand that point. So I said let just be friends so I go online I send her a message but, she want respond for like two day or so I know that she got the message. I really like her I think she is very sweet so I would like to meet.
I want to know how to go about getting her be mine. Louisiana women or very hard to understand they don’t smile they that they give out the wrong message to men.
• You pose an interesting Dilemma, you claim by asking these questions you have a better understanding of the guy or girl you want, the point is someone is attracted to someone, but Love depends on many variables you dont even list, the list of questions you want someone to ask are not infallible tools, Human beings react to different cues when in Love.
To expect these questions to rule over time is impractical, No one goes into a relationship knowing all about the person. I have a Love interest now but he cant even bring himself to ask for a date, not even for Lunch or a coffee break.
Some people are attracted in a sexual, some byother methods. If you truly want to know something asking wont help. The old adage is Women want to hear and Men are willing to say it just to get what they want. It goes for both sexes , only time will tell if a Man or Women truly loves you.
It wont be just what they say but what they do to show it too, Your actions as well as your words need to say the same thing…Happy Dating. The advice I give comes from years of experience about Men and Women in Relationships. • Pingback: •
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I have tried this countless times and EVERY SINGLE TIME, it works for me . :D This is what you have to do! • If you are meeting/texting/calling a girl for the first time, you might start with small talk or weather or likes/dislikes.
We should keep in mind that EVERY SINGLE GUY who has ever tried to talk to her does the exact same thing! • You have to be little different from the crowd/herd mentality.
You still have to ask the same questions, but make a game out of it. Here's what you have to do. • Ask her whether she would like to play a game. If the girl is interested, she would say yes! • Tell her that in this game, you will ask her one question about her life and she would do the same! You will go turn by turn in this. The questions can be about anything!
• Make specific rules like once the question is asked, it cannot be repeated by the other player. • Keep point system as well, for example, tell her if one of you refuses to answer a question , a penalty would be there, in which the other player has to do whatever the winner asks to do! • The girl will understand what you are trying to do (opening her up), but she will say yes!(Never got a no) • Start with a bang! make sure that you are here for a relationship and not looking for friendship and all...keep your questions clean for starters.
Don't go overboard with first 6-7 questions! Keep it clean but interesting! Here are some of my personal favorites! • Most daring thing she ever did? • Best compliment she ever got. • Most ridiculous rumor she has ever came across (about her of course) • Top 5 things she seek from her perfect partner. • Her dream job/holiday destination/man • Describe her fantasy (clean one) • things she feels she is good/bad at • Her favorite hangout places etc etc • Weirdest situation she was ever in • You got the idea....keep it about her.
Make her feel important. Don't ask about previous relationships...bad breakups...anything which can dampen the mood in any way. Make her feel good about herself and her life and what more you can add to her life! • Also make sure, when you are answering her questions, don't be brutally honest! Even though your life sucks, you have no hobbies, you have boring/futile/horrible job. Just try to keep it light and peppy. • If you are texting, make sure that she keeps the momentum going and not answer you after 2-3 hours.
Its best to initiate any game when she is free...at night or on weekends. • Feel her comfort level and then adjust the tempo/heat of your questions.
If she is opening up, you can up the ante/heat up the questions! Of course, don't be lewd or crass. Don't get carried away in any heat of a moment...if you can sense that she is also getting exited then try a few sample questions just to test the waters. Try these- • Her first kiss • What is she passionate about • One dark secret(if any) that she has and no one knows.
• Best pickup line ever used on her • Where would she prefer to meet you for dinner! (if you haven't met) • What turns her on!(use this with caution!) • Did she ever had flings/one night stands/friends with benefits..(again, caution!) • What would she prefer to have with you (lunch/dinner/breakfast) If the answer is lunch, you are already screwed! • You got the general idea. One more thing you can do is help her in asking questions! Suggest, what she can ask. Be more open than her.
It will help her in opening up! It will give you a heads up as you have already prepared a good/witty/funny answer to the question suggested ;) • If she refuses to answer a question (which she eventually will!), let her win the game .:) • That's the masterstroke! You kept her exited, you kept her on the edge, got to know a lot of stuff about her, and you also let her win! A sign of a true gentleman.
• YOUR END GAME - Seal the deal with this one. After telling her that she has won the game, request the permission to ask one more question! Ask her out on a candlelight dinner/movie/bowling etc etc. (if you are just texting/calling on phone and haven't met ie.) • You already know what interests her, so ask accordingly! If that would not make her say yes, I dunno what will!
Happy Dating :) It’s always exciting for men to meet new girl, especially sexy and attractive girls that you either want to date or maybe even marry some day! Even if you know you like her, and you don’t want to blow it, you are not good at making conversation with the girl you like. What should you do? Actually, it’s really important to ask the right questions when you first meet a girl– and even after you start dating her.
Therefore, it’s necessary to distinguish whether she is the right one for you or not by asking her these questions. #1 Where are you from? Simple, direct, and mostly just a ritual when you first meet someone. #2 What do you do for a living? This will let you know a lot about her passions and what she wants to contribute to the world.
#3 What do you love about your job? Many people hate their job and love to complain. So is she positive or negative about it? #4 Do you consider yourself an introvert or extrovert? If you’re a raging party animal/extrovert and she’s a shy book work, yeah, that might not work. #5 What’s your dream? Does she even have dreams?
Hopefully she does. #6 Do you have any siblings? This might give you some insight into her personality if you can find out where she is in the birth order. #7 Are you close to your parents? It might be a red flag if she’s not close to them, although the reasons why can vary wildly.
#8 What’s your favorite kind of food? Is she a super picky eater? Or adventurous? How does it compare to you? #9 What do you do for fun? If you like to hike and go skydiving, but she’s not a nature lover or risk taker… well… you get my point. #10 Do you like concerts?
This will give you an insight about the kind of music she likes, or if she even likes concerts at all. #11 Would you ever go skydiving? This is a biggie! People who would go skydiving are very different than those who wouldn’t. #12 If you could trade places with anyone in the world, who would it be and why?
This gives you a clue as to whether she’s happy with her life or not. #13 What was your first impression of me?
Well, this will tell you whether or not you have any chance with her at all. #14 What do you look for in a guy you date? You can de-personalize this one and not ask about yourself specifically… so you don’t look needy. #15 What was your longest relationship? If you’re just looking for a hookup, but she’s only a long-term relationship gal, then you might be out of luck. #16 What’s the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you?Take careful notes on this one so that you can do something romantic for her later on.
#17 What’s the most fun thing to do in this city? If you’re not native to the city you’re in, then see what kind of ideas she has for fun. #18 If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be and why? Would she still live here?
If not, why would she leave? #19 Would you ever want to be famous? This might give you a clue about whether or not she has some narcissistic tendencies or if she really likes a lot of attention. #20 If you would like to be famous, what would you want to be known for? It would be very different if she compared herself to Oprah than if she said she wanted to be like Kim Kardashian. #21 Who do you admire most?
Most people say their parents, but hopefully she gives a more creative answer. Don’t forget to ask her why. #22 If you could have dinner with anyone – dead or alive – who would it be and why? She could say anything from God to Cleopatra. #23 Do you have a best friend?
If she doesn’t have a lot of friends, that says something about her. Conversely, if she has a zillion, maybe she won’t have time for you. #24 How old are you? One of the basics, but you need to be careful with this one if she is older because she might be sensitive about her age. #25 When is your birthday? This is better than asking her what her sign is… because that’s just downright cheesy. #26 Do you have any hobbies? Does she like to knit? Is she a marathon runner? Is she in a band?
#27 Who has had the most influence on you? It’s probably even more important to ask her why and how this person had so much influence on her. #28 Are you looking for a relationship? This is a pretty important one. Too many times, one person wants a hookup and the other wants a relationship. Get on the same page right away. #29 If you won the lottery, what would you do with all the money?Would she donate it to charity and feed the homeless?
Or blow it on new shoes, cars, and houses? #30 If you had 3 wishes, what would they be? This question will give you a clue as to what is missing in her life. #31 What’s your biggest pet peeve? Pay close attention to this one so that you can avoid doing whatever bugs her. #32 If you were stranded on a desert island, what 3 things would you want/need with you? If she says a person, it shows she’s sensitive. If she says beer, then she’s a partier. #33 Do you have a celebrity crush? Well, you may not want to know this one just in case she asks you for a “free pass” someday.
#34 Do you like reading? Is she an intellectual or someone who despises hitting the books? #35 Do you believe in God? People say to stay away from this one, but if she’s an atheist and you’re a devout Christian, then it’s best to know right away. Meeting a new girl is exciting, but it can be scary too if you don’t know what to talk about.
Here are 17 questions I’d love to have been asked when out on a date: • What’s one thing you wish you’d known 20 years ago? • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given? • If you didn’t live where you currently live and you could choose anywhere in the world where would it be and why?
• Who’s your role model? Who inspires you? • Who’s your best friend and what do you love about him/her? • What are you reading at the moment?
• What’s your favourite way to spend the weekend? • What do you do for fun? • What was the last film you watched that moved you/made you laugh out loud/inspired you? • Who has had the greatest influence on your life so far? (Parent/grandparent/schoolteacher/boss/colleague?) • What are 5 things you couldn’t do without? (Not oxygen, water, world peace! They might be things you carry in your handbag/purse at all times!) • What’s your dream job if you’re not currently doing it?
• Where do you go when you want to feel calm/happy/peaceful? • Tell me something about yourself that might surprise me. • What’s your proudest moment in your life so far? • If you had 24 hours to do whatever you liked in your city what would you spend it doing? • What’s the greatest risk you’ve ever taken? • 1. What are your secret skills?
Girls just love to talk about themselves, and besides being well presented, this question will be an excellent opportunity for them to brag themselves too. Whether you like this question or not, it is surely one of the good questions to ask a girl. 2.
What was your favorite childhood toy? You can’t afford to miss bringing out this question, if you are really serious about asking a girl interesting questions. This is another opportunity for her to boast about herself and a great way to see how attentive she is when it comes to others. 4. What is the most embarrassing that happened to you in primary school?
No doubt, this is one of the funny questions to ask a girl. Start with her funniest incident if you do not wish to embarrass her, and then continue. It is important that she realizes that the most important thing to you is to find out everything related to her and that, also, you want to have perfect a fun time on your date.
( ) 5. What would you grab if your house was on fire? This is a good way to figure out her life priorities. Maybe she is someone who binds to things, so it would be good to know what and why they are important to her. Maybe she will give you the perfect explanation for how would she act in such circumstances, and that could make you happier than what your expectations were. To be honest, this is the best questions to ask a girl. ( ) 6.What is your destination for the trip of your dreams?
Still confused about what to ask a girl? Ask her this question! Besides that you’ll find out whether your desires are similar, you are going to leave a good impression. How? Because your sweetheart would think that you want to travel with her somewhere, and it’s always tempting to girls. 7. When you were little, what did you want to be when you grow up?
And do you still want it? You’ll find out what are her life’s ambitions – perhaps she has achieved what she, as a small girl, set as a target. Such seemingly silly and childish questions can help a lot to know what kind of person is in front of you.
This was the seventh question, in our list of 21 questions to ask a girl. 8. If you got stuck in the elevator and was forced to listen to only one song, which would it be? Interesting stories about horrible bosses and colleagues, there is always a good subject for conversation, especially if you have a similar experience in that field. Ask her about her work, although perhaps it is boring and nobody is interested too much.
She will feel good because finally there is someone with whom she can talk about what she does. Certainly, one of the good questions to ask someone you like. 10. What is the best advice anyone has ever given you? She may not want to answer you if the advice applies to you – men. But if she is proud, because she has accepted that advice and acted on it, she will certainly tell you about that as something that makes her proud of and what meant a lot in her life.
( ) 11. Which social game was your favorite while growing up? Cute questions to ask a girl – if love is born between you, and you become a couple, you will never be bored. If nothing else, you are going to entertain along with your favorite social game and enjoy the time spent together. In case you do become a couple, make sure to check out these love quotes.
They are the perfect ones to describe your love for her. 12. If you could live anywhere, where would it be? This question is similar to that where she would like to travel. People aspire to live somewhere where they aren’t often, and where they can travel only sometimes. This question can spread the story out all night, and probably will include many other topics. 13. How do you treat people who annoy you for no reason? If she says that they are crossed out forever, ask yourself what you can expect in the future.
It shows that she has radical decisions. A quality person will not have prejudices but will try to rise above the situation and find the positive side, whatever it comes to. This one is one of the Get To Know Someone type of questions to ask a girl.
14. Would you go out with me …? On this question to ask your crush, you can freely add an activity in which typically girls do not find something too interesting – certainly, honorable exceptions – e.g.,… in the shop of computer equipment or a sports equipment or some sports competition. If she cares about you, she will keep you company, and you will return the favour, I am sure. Maybe you will go shopping with her, or you finish watching a romantic movie of her taste. Relationships are based on compromises, and if you want to take a while, make an effort.
15. What have you learned from your past relationship? You want to see what she respects in the relationship and to the boys. You will discover she still has some feelings for her ex. And what kind of person they were. Do not despair if she praises and mentions their good qualities because it means that she knows what it’s worth, as the lady with a soft heart. ( ) 16. What is the most important thing that guys should understand about the girl, and it seems to you that they do not understand?
Get ready, the answer to this question should teach you a lot. But, make sure not to go into the debate at least on the first date, because perhaps the second one will never happen. Even though it is a good question to ask a girl, you can avoid this you don’t want to hear anything bad about we guys!
17. Who is your best friend? A good friend will always support her dreams and to be more beautiful part of her life. True friendship means selfless giving and taking. Good friends are those who work together to solve many of life’s questions. If there are quality people next to her, then she’s just the same.
Another definitely should be asked no matter what type of question, in our list of 21 questions to ask a girl. 18. Would you like to change something about me? Expect her to say: “ Absolutely nothing, you are perfect.” But, it’s not the real answer! Here you can see how much she is honest with you. She probably would change something, at least, the laces on sneakers.
Honesty is one of the principles of an ideal relationship. It is really good questions to ask a girl. 19. With what phrases were guys trying to conquer you with? If a girl has a strange and very unusual name, she would love that somebody asks her what it means. It’s a thoughtful way to let her know that this person is interested in her.
Therefore, if you go out with the girl that has an unusual name, be sure to ask her what it means. No doubt about it, another one of the great questions to ask a girl. 21. If you could jump into a pool full of something, what would it be?
For many people, putting together a dating profile is the easy bit (although believe me, there are plenty who find this task nearly impossible).
They even think that chatting in emails or on the phone isn’t so bad either but when it comes to actually going out on a date — the very reason they were online dating in the first place — this is where they panic. Seriously. They worry they’ll get found out (whatever that means) or that they’ll get tongue-tied and have nothing to say. They fear they aren’t interesting and will bore their date, hence make a fool of themselves.
These thoughts are actually real to them. But let me tell you something: it’s just thoughts, and your thoughts aren’t facts. The fear is real, I get that, I’ve felt it many times! You are anxious and going out on a date with a relative stranger can feel awkward. Remember that your counterpart is likely to be as nervous as you though, even if they don’t look it! As a coach I listen a lot more than I talk, it’s the nature of what I do.
It’s also a strategy that works well if you find yourself nervous. People, on the whole, love talking about themselves. So, to take the pressure off, arm yourself with some great questions to ask your date. Remember that genuine interest makes all the difference.
You don’t need to have all the answers to all the questions on your first date either. There is beauty in peeling back the layers and getting to know someone, it’s something that really could end up taking a lifetime! Here are 17 questions I’d love to have been asked when out on a date: • What’s one thing you wish you’d known 20 years ago?
• What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given? • If you didn’t live where you currently live and you could choose anywhere in the world where would it be and why? • Who’s your role model? Who inspires you? • Who’s your best friend and what do you love about him/her? • What are you reading at the moment? • What’s your favourite way to spend the weekend? • What do you do for fun? • What was the last film you watched that moved you/made you laugh out loud/inspired you? • Who has had the greatest influence on your life so far?
(Parent/grandparent/schoolteacher/boss/colleague?) • What are 5 things you couldn’t do without? (Not oxygen, water, world peace! They might be things you carry in your handbag/purse at all times!) • What’s your dream job if you’re not currently doing it? • Where do you go when you want to feel calm/happy/peaceful? • Tell me something about yourself that might surprise me. • What’s your proudest moment in your life so far?
• If you had 24 hours to do whatever you liked in your city what would you spend it doing? • What’s the greatest risk you’ve ever taken? Follow Rebecca Perkins on Twitter
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