After David was transferred out of the mental ward, he still faced a tremendous battle ahead. The medications had long-term side effects. David was extremely frustrated when trying to do common, everyday tasks, and he struggled just to walk And it's given them compassion for families who are faced with a loved one who suffers from mental illness. I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord; Be strong, and let your heart take courage; Yes, wait for the Lord.
• • • • • Good mental health care is crucial for a man going through a divorce. It is important he is mindful of his own health and that of his children.
Going through a divorce will probably be one of most the stressful events of a man’s life. It is especially important that he take precautions to monitor his stress. According to the men are much less likely than women to admit they are suffering from depression, anxiety, or other stress-related mental illnesses. They are much more likely to be affected by the stigma associated with mental illness and to avoid seeking treatment.
Mental Illness Stigma Prevents Men from Seeking Help Men may be reluctant to consider the fact that they may be suffering from depression or another stress-related mental illness when going through a divorce. Many men fall prey to society’s unspoken attitude that a man should remain strong and silent about his mental health.
Doing so can have disastrous consequences for men undergoing the stress of a divorce and can create unnecessary problems for him and his children in the aftermath of the divorce. Stress can lead to depression and anxiety for both him and his children for years after the divorce is final. Men must be proactive in monitoring their own stress and that of their children while going through a divorce.
Waiting too long can worsen any mental illness and its consequences. Often, the illnesses don’t just go away. Taking preventive measures such as therapy for themselves, their children, and (if possible) involving their former spouses, is essential for maintaining good mental health during and after a divorce. NIMH estimates that six million men suffer from depression each year in the United States. Their research has found that men are much less likely than women to get the help they need for psychological problems, and often they will simply try to hide their stress or other health problems like depression.
The institute states flatly that men “may be unlikely to admit to depressive symptoms and seek help.” Children’s Mental Health Must Be Monitored Mental health problems are often related to stress. Divorces are stressful. Men going through divorces must pay careful attention to their levels of stress both during and after the divorce process. Children too are subject to the same stress as their dads, and dads must step up to ensure that their children’s mental health is monitored and treated as needed during the divorce process and for years after.
Ideally, both parents will be involved in ensuring the well-being of their children, but the kids can get lost in the shuffle. If both parents are not willing to be involved, it is up to dads to step up and ensure that both their own and their children’s mental health needs are taken care of as the divorce process unfolds.
A good first step is to seek the advice of a primary care physician. Stress comes in many forms, and often it is not obvious to men that their stress has reached a level where medical help is needed. However, there are warning signs, and men going through divorces are well-advised to pay close attention to those signs and make sure they and their kids receive the medical treatment they need.
Recognizing When Stress Requires Medical Help Everyone has stress, and not all stress is bad, according to experts, but long-term stress like that brought on by going through a divorce is bad stress.
It is a medical problem that needs attention like other medical problems. Such long-term stress can lead to other forms of mental illness like anxiety and depression. It can also make going through a divorce all that much harder. Men getting divorced should learn to recognize the warning signs that their stress is getting beyond the typical stress brought on by work and family issues that they may have experienced and dealt with in the past.
Just like a broken leg, stress and other mental health problems are medical problems and must be dealt with accordingly. While it would be ideal for both parents and their children to go to therapy to help to recognize and cope with stress during a divorce, it is often not possible for both parents to be involved. Many schools have programs for kids whose parents are getting divorced. If a dad cannot get the other parent involved in therapy, he should consider talking with his children’s school counselor.
Stress can have a huge effect on many aspects of kids’ lives, and free help is often available at school. It may even be a good idea for a man getting a divorce to have some sessions with a therapist specializing in children’s mental health issues to help him recognize warning signs in his children and learn ways to help them cope. Have a Plan in Mind for Dealing with Stress Like telling your kids you are getting divorced, to begin with, it is a good idea not to wing it when helping your kids cope with stress.
It is likely you will be able to help in various ways, but first, you will need to be able to recognize the signs of long-term stress and have some definite coping strategies in mind. It is a good idea at the first signs of stress to let your kids know it’s normal for them to feel what they’re feeling.
However, just letting them know it’s all going to be OK and not to worry is not enough. You will need to get some experienced medical help so you can provide your children with ways to deal with their stress. Breathing techniques and talking to a school counselor about what they’re feeling can help children immensely in dealing with the stress brought on by their parents’ divorce and the new lives they will be living. A man must be able to recognize that there is nothing wrong with his own feelings of stress and not to succumb to the stigma associated with mental illness.
Men getting divorced must be able to recognize when their stress has gotten to be too much to deal with alone. A man must be able to recognize symptoms of stress in himself and admit to himself that he may need help. A man going through a divorce should be no more averse to seeking medical help for a mental illness than he should be in seeking help for any other medical problem. Warning Signs of Stress-Related Mental Illness Men should be particularly mindful of the following warning signs that their stress has reached a level beyond what they can deal with themselves.
These are warning signs that their stress has exceeded what they have been used to dealing with day to day. These warning signs indicate that it may be time to seek help in dealing with stress.
The following warning signs are the most common ones. They are an excellent starting point for a dad going through a divorce who needs to reflect on his and his children’s levels of stress.
The National Institute of Mental Health advises men to look for the following signs that stress could lead to a long-term condition: • Anger, irritability or aggressiveness • Noticeable changes in mood, energy level, or appetite • Difficulty sleeping or sleeping too much • Difficulty concentrating, feeling restless, or on edge • Increased worry or feeling stressed • A need for alcohol or drugs • Sadness or hopelessness • Suicidal thoughts • Feeling flat or having trouble feeling positive emotions • Engaging in high-risk activities • Ongoing headaches, digestive issues, or pain • Obsessive thinking or compulsive behavior • Thoughts or behaviors that interfere with work, family, or social life • Unusual thinking or behaviors that concern other people Once a man has identified any of these signs, a good resource for local options for finding help is the .
NAMI offers great help for a man going through a divorce who needs to find medical help for his stress, other related problems, or even just a group of other men with similar issues to talk with. Talking with others with similar challenges helps men realize they are not alone, and just sharing their stories with others can be of significant therapeutic value in dealing with mental illness.
Related Posts Mental illness refers to some form of psychopathology that makes the mind function differently. It is a broad term that encompasses many types of diagnoses, from chemical imbalances like bipolar disorder to personality disorders like narcissism or borderline personality disorder. Divorces carry a certain degree of stress and strife. It… • As if splitting the assets, adjusting to the single life, and sorting through the uncertainty of what lies ahead wasn't enough, the worry piles on as you think about your children.
Accounting for their physic al need seems clearer, but what about their emotional wellbeing? If you’re not even sure where… Decent article. Up until the part I read about Dads stepping up with the mental health of the children. The author is incorrect in saying that the child’s Primary Care Physician will always be your ally. These days, PCP’s are not equipped to make any assessments of the child’s psychiatric condition.
I’m a little old, but I remember having the same pediatrician until I was in college. He was a good man. I told him that I intended to do sports before leaving for college. He gave me a full 12-lead EKG the last time I saw him, because at that time, there were young athletes dropping dead from fatal arrhythmias on basketball courts from Atlanta to New York City. This was just after the talk he gave me about “wrapping it up” before I had relations with a girl.
When I had concerns about my child being on the autistic spectrum, I told my ex. Who, of course, denied there was a problem and told me I was crazy. I called the pediatrician with my concerns … actually, I left her a message … she never got back to me. When I had my children for the summer, I took him to a child psychologist to see if I was crazy. Within five minutes of meeting my kid, he said he needed further evaluation by a psychiatrist, but he was at very least ADHD. Being diagnosed as an adult with ADD, I felt for my child and immediately transmitted the results to their Primary Care Physician.
Do you know what she said? “This guy is a Social Worker. I can’t make a referral based on his conclusions.” I sent her his CV. He was a respected Counselor at University of Cincinnati, running weekly anger management sessions for teenagers. That did nothing for her. I finally said “Jesus, can you see the fact that he TOUCHES EVERYTHING IN A ROOM???
Have you spoken to him without his mother there???” (For the record, I left the room when the therapist was speaking to my child, because I know that children are more likely to be truthful when their parents are not around.) Her response?
“That is illegal. I cannot be alone in a room with a child.” Again, bullshit, because I know the law. I was an EMT for 6 years, worked in psych and hospitals for quite some time.
It is absolutely legal for a physician to send a parent out of the room if they need to do so for a definitive diagnosis. Long story short … dads, if you suspect that your kid is having some problems, go to a child psychiatrist or therapist and have them write up a report. HMO’s and PPO’s do not cover mental health these days, so pediatricians are not going to make referrals. You have to take the initiative. It’s your child, and the peace of mind knowing far outweighs the fallout of your ex finding out.
But if you have shared legal custody, MAKE SURE YOU LET YOUR EX KNOW!!! It will bite you in court later on if you do not. Make sure she is given access to all the records, and provide her a copy of the report.
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Review by ChristianAdvice.net: for anyone – Christian or otherwise struggling with their marriage. Having been through a divorce and dedicated her life to reconciliation of Christian marriages and is fully qualified – something desperately needed as people and millennials especially have no idea that in the old days – divorce was rare even amongst non-believers and now it’s simply seen as an ‘option’ waiting in the wings of a marriage if necessary – thanks to liberalisation of laws and government and society.
ChristianAdvice’s words – the problem is that we have bred a generation of selfish people – I’m sorry but it’s the truth and it’s only going to get worse unless children are taught the truth about what marriage is – service! Not what I can get out of it. I include myself in this generation and it’s wrong headed view of marriage.
Nothing in church is taught about marriage these days since half the congregation is divorced and this only makes things worse. So let’s get back to the biblical view and meaning of it – sacred – not to be taken lightly and a covenant – not a contract.
Then perhaps if those that are divorced will not make the same mistakes next time and have better lives and marriages. This idea that divorce is OK is an unbiblical one – but sometimes is the only option as even Moses talked about – but the modern take it or leave it attitude we have now to marriage and divorce has devastated society at large – not just in church. It’s never OK according to Jesus because it’s a commitment – not a contract (the world has turned it int just the latter) – but clearly from the Bible we see people make mistakes and must move forward when things have totally broken down.
The woman at the well was not told to undo all the marriages and relationships she’d had – this would have been clearly impossible! But she was told to “go and sin no more.” Divorce is NOT God’s plan – ever – and there is hope for reconciliation if there is unselfishness on both sides and a willingness to change.
So – I wanted to promote this Christian ladies ministry on ChristianAdvice.net since I feel it is a much needed service. She offers group, individual and counselling on marriages that are breaking down (they can be fixed!) I’ve certainly drunk my fair share of alcohol – especially in my misguided youth whilst at college, and frankly I’m ashamed of what I did. That said – let’s get to the question; Should a Christian drink alcohol?Well – the answer is surprisingly simple, and no it’s not like asking many other questions that because they are omitted or not mentioned it is and often wrongly assume something is ok.
There is little – almost no mention of the marriage ceremony or how it should be done in The Bible – yet men are wise enough to understand from reading The Bible end-to-end how it should to be done to please god – one man – one woman – for life – until death – no questions. That’s a tough ask and hence it does say that marriage is not for all – you need to be tough.
That is total commitment – that is the model Jesus gave. But I digress; In this case the question; should a Christian drink alcohol is right there in the text – it’s not open to interpretation – it’s simply a case of are you ready to accept it and get on with the business of being obedient. I know I wasn’t (I let myself off the hook a little as when I was in college I had zero knowledge of God and the Bible) – but now i do and I am often still often not prepared to bend to the Bible and look for ways to make it bend to me – we all do that – hopefully less as we age and mature.
So let’s have it – the bIble verse that tells us that alcohol is not good for a Christian; notice it does not forbid alcohol, but merely shows us unequivocally that it’s not God’s desire for Christians to be anything other than 100% sober-minded.
Why? Because we live in a world of traps set by our adversary, and alcohol stops the mind and conscience and will functioning properly. So the verse on alcohol which gives us God’s perspective (and there are plenty of others); For he shall be great in the sight of the Lord, and shall drink neither wine nor strong drink; and he shall be filled with the Holy Ghost, even from his mother’s womb. Now – the above verse is talking about a man that is preparing the way for the Lord – John the Baptist.
And aren’t we meant to also be preparing the way for the Lord? I would say so. Sure it’s debated wether Jesus drank wine at the wedding – perhaps he did as it was customary. He certainly made wine so it’s not evil in itself – nothing is. God never has a problem with living normally and in some wine in moderation can never do much harm. The trouble is – one leads to two – leads to three – leads to debauchery and in the end madness and mayhem and all kinds of ungodliness.
In this day and age not drinking is tough – as it’s a social ‘norm’ If we are honest – the above verse shows us what would be His – God’s preference if we are to get serious about Jesus and set an example of supreme sober-mindedness and focus on godly things.
I don’t think anyone can argue that verse and we you do – it’s at our peril. They say a disproportionate number of artists are ‘mad’ and suffer from depression and the rest. Well we’ve known that for years just by observing the pop culture – we don’t need another million dollar study to tell us why. It’s very simple. Sure artists are generally more left-brained and therefore emotionally more connected than our pure maths counterparts (did I get that the right way round?..
it doesn’t matter) – but not always. We are all a mixture and can be anywhere on the creative/academic scale, and that scale is not linear as we suppose but multi-dimensional – we are all a REAL mix of gifting and abilities. No one is just ‘an artist’ or ‘a poet’ or a ‘mathematician’ – we are people – who have different levels of abilities that express themselves in a million ways from music to maths and everything in between – they are all connected.
But the reason artists have so much mental anguish is because they sense deep inside the emptiness of what they are doing – unintentionally (as may have been in his case) or intentionally profiting from glorifying man and not God. It’s vacuous. Glorifying man instead of God’s wonderful creation will always leave you empty We all wonder why a 28 year old DJ takes his own life when he is at the top of his game. Here’s the reason (without wanting to be harsh); spinning spastic discs at a 1000 decibels to drunken revelling crowds is vacuous – it serves no purpose than than to stir up the carnal rebellious nature of man.
Now before you say – hey wait a minute that’s judging! I’m not judging where this poor man’s soul went – I have no idea what conversations his spirit had with God’s holy spirit in his last days. He may well end up in heaven – and me in hell. Artists; God can be found everywhere – a beautiful melody – a flower – a poem – painting, a good deed etc What I am saying is, the key for an artist to be peaceful is to always look for ways to expound and amplify God’s amazing creation and spotlight His glory as many of the old great composers and artists did.
Ask God the still small voice to guide you with melodies, painting and writing tone and style and you’ll be happy. Are you like me – a luddite when it comes to design and coding – and you just want to quickly get on with other aspects of your running your business or website rather than be concerned with the arduous process of learning how to understand the difficult code and CSS aspects of web designing?
Well I think I have found the perfect solution for you. This tool is the PERFECT addition for any WordPress users or folks that are not experts in code and programming. If you don’t want to read on you can get the visual inspectorCSS tool . is absolutely amazing! Why is that – because it’s soooo simple to use – even for Internet morons like me who are only capable of basics when it comes to Internet web designing.
This tiny little (but powerful) tool installs on your web browser in 1-click and allows you not only to see which part of your webpage uses which bit of CSS code – it lets you edit and test the look of your webpage design and layout in real-time. The best most simple CSS WYSIWYG web design tool for non-techies Not only that – when you have done your design tests, changed your font colours and got your page layout how you want it, you can export the code – or copy and paste it into the ‘Additional CSS’ part of your website and all your changes will be added to the live site.
While I was scouting the net I came across many good tools for doing this – like the free WordPress YellowPencil plugin and others – but CanvasFlip is most definitely my choice (remember I hate complicated web stuff!). Well since I am no expert – I will let the guys at WPCrafting explain exactly how to use this amazing piece of CSS web design software and show you how it will dramatically speed up your designing-time and allow you to get on with other things more pressing!
God bless you all – Edward. Using CanvasFlip to easily edit your website look and design… Why is it so critical that we learn to give our fellow human beings when they hurt us and harm us? I have seen many people become bitter and twisted, and actually mentally disturbed because they haven’t realised that they have people in their lives they need to forgive.
It has happened to me and I didn’t even know it was happening. Unforgiveness is such a subtle problem that’s often the person who has it – does not even know they have a problem.
It may first start with simple resentment towards someone – a company – a work colleague, a family members, and then progress to anger – even sometimes a righteous anger that is warranted.
But ultimately it must be dealt with and the person must learn to forgive that person or persons – or even God himself if they have blamed him something (as if God doesn’t always have our interests at heart and we mistake the world’s problems for his doings). The biggest loser with unforgivenss is the one who can’t forgive!
Th fact is, unforgiveness in inevitably leads to mental illness if left unchecked and if left to fester physical illness may result and even death in severe cases of anger and resentment build up which affecting hormone production and the knock-on effect to the immune system. Peoples whole lives can be ruined by this one simple thing and that’s why Jesus in the Bible so big on repenting of ALL sins – including being unforgiving towards others.
Remember he forgave us so we MUST forgive others and the universal law of the cosmos set in motion by Him – like a strange paradox – results in the greatest harm to the person not able to forgive! So – is God a globalist? Surely he would be – busy breaking down barriers and walls, and making us all more connected, as Mark Zuckerburg so generously has helped us all to be (or connected to all the wrong people it would more so appear recently)?
Hmm.. I’m not so sure. Perhaps we need to ask the question how all the borders around the countries in the world arose in the first place. The first thing to note is that all borders appeared through wars and conquest of some kind – virtually all. To deny this is to deny fact.
This is not a good thing, and does not make borders right in itself, but to deny this is to not understand the fact of how they materialised. Thereafter they are considered necessary to protect and keep in order what has been gained illegally or otherwise.
So what about borders and walls when they occur in nature – are there any and why are they there? Well I know that every single cell my body has wall around it. And why is that? It serves several purposes. One purpose of the wall in each cell in my body is to stop the contents of the cell pouring out and the cell dying out through starvation.
Another reason is to stop foreign invaders with bad intentions coming in and destroying the cell from within. Hmm.. interesting I can hear some people saying.
I never thought about it like that. God knows that when men conspire together (as they have always done) they will try to become Gods, and in doing so forfeit any hope they have of salvation or coming to know Him. So He divided Babylon and confounded their languages for their sake – not His as a form of damage limitaion and protection of mankind.
In a perfect world I grant you that borders would probably not be necessary (and they won’t be necessary in the coming digital prison being built to track us all where all real freedom will be removed) we would not need borders around our homes, our schools and courthouses. We would not need fences around around our gardens to avoid squabbles, or walls in our houses , because God would somehow miraculously protect us from intruders and the elements, and anything that could harm us.
But that’s not how life is. Everywhere there are intruders, natural circumstances seeking to harm us and borders play an important if not essential part in protecting us from these things. So before we start taking our walls and borders down, or anything for that matter, we should ask why it was put there in the first place. And then if we still want to take it down – take it down. Don’t preach that all walls and borders are bad by default without remembering the cell wall god created in your body – which has a wall or protection around it for a very, very good reason, so we can live safely and securely without threat.
And each cell can coexist from each other and be different from all the other cells and reliant on all other cells so that diversity is maximised in the body. But pull down all walls, and make everyone the same – and you’ve remove the very thing the ant-wall lobby think they are preserving – diversity.
The Devil seeks to make us all the same – no diversity – no individualism – no means to look after our neighbours, and all state owned and controlled. The wall in my home are there for a reason. Posts navigation
The Short Version: Singles who’ve been diagnosed with a mental illness may feel anxious about joining a general dating site and fear that they could be judged, harassed, or rejected because of their condition. These singles often feel isolated and despair of meeting someone who understands what they’re going through. That’s something Jim Leftwich set out to change when he launched , a niche dating site for men and women with mental illnesses.
Since 2004, No Longer Lonely has built a global community for singles who have been diagnosed with schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, PTSD, OCD, and other mental health disorders — because who better to understand what you’re going through than someone who’s gone through it, too? Over the years, No Longer Lonely has facilitated many friendships, relationships, and marriages by offering a safe place where people with mental illness are welcomed instead of stigmatized.
Jim Leftwich knows what it’s like to struggle with a mental illness. He was diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder as a young man, and it has taken years of treatment for him to find balance in his life.
He has been in a psychiatric hospital, lived in halfway housing, and worked his way back to good mental health so that now he is a self-supporting, semi-retired director of a college library. He may have stumbled at first, but he didn’t let his diagnosis stop him from achieving his goals.
In fact, Jim doesn’t believe a mental illness should stand in the way of anyone seeking happiness, stability, and love in their lives. He’s made it his mission to challenge the stigma around mental illness and empower individuals to overcome their personal challenges, particularly in the social arena. In 2004, Jim changed the dating landscape for singles like himself — that is, singles who have been diagnosed with a mental illness — by launching a niche dating site for the mentally ill.
It was the first dating platform to exclusively target this underserved population in the dating scene, and it garnered media attention from CNN, Huffington Post, The New York Times, and Narratively. In 2004, No Longer Lonely became one of the first dating sites to cater to singles with mental illnesses.
“I’ve been blessed with a recovery that most people don’t achieve,” Jim told us. “Now I just want to help more people and send them a message of empowerment. Mental illness is not something that should hold you back.” NoLongerLonely.com has 22,000+ users and is the leading dating platform for mentally ill individuals around the world.
Anyone diagnosed with a mental illness can sign up to the dating site for free and see what the online community is all about. The site connects people who have been diagnosed with schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, OCD, personality disorder, PTSD, and numerous other mental illnesses because such people can relate to one another’s experiences It doesn’t cost anything to create a profile on No Longer Lonely.
The dating site even offers a two-week free trial for all members, so you can take a look around and get a sense of how everything works before investing in a membership plan. Jim said it’s important to him that his members feel they’re getting a good value from the site.
“I want them to say, ‘That was a good investment,'” he told us. No Longer Lonely has three membership plans — a one-month, three-month, and lifetime. Roughly 60% of users go for the lifetime plan because they’re interested in playing the long game and putting in the time it takes to find the right person. The sign-up process starts on a helpful note by offering profile creation tips, including how to craft an attention-grabbing headline and why it’s important to be honest about what you’re looking for.
No Longer Lonely offers a quick yet thorough profile creation process. From there, it’s a pretty standard put-in-your-email and choose-a-username process.
When you’re creating your profile, you can choose to disclose your height, weight, and a personal bio, and you can also fill in optional fields for your transportation, working status, and living situation. Members may opt to share their diagnosis as well if they wish. No Longer Lonely promotes transparent dating profiles with detailed information. Members can let people know upfront if they’re living in Section 8 housing or suffer from schizophrenia. No Longer Lonely wants singles to feel safe talking about their personal situations and health. It’s not some dirty secret, not here. You don’t have to add a picture to your profile to browse the site and send messages.
However, users with profile pictures are often more successful on dating sites because they look more legit. Once you’ve gotten your profile squared away, you can browse lists of members who are online now, members celebrating birthdays, and new members, or they can conduct a detailed search by gender, age, diagnosis, and location to find a compatible individual on the site.
No Longer Lonely also has a live chat room where members can mix and mingle anonymously. “Your chat room is the coolest,” said Michael, who lives in a small town in Montana. “The friends I’ve met on NoLongerLonely.com make the bad days a whole lot better.” “I try to create a sense of community,” Jim said. “Most dating sites are impersonal, so I try to make it a more personal thing. You know, I’m just like you, and I run the site.” Singles who have a mental illness undoubtedly have some reservations about posting their personal information on the web, especially a dating site.
That’s why Jim goes out of his way to ensure No Longer Lonely is a secure, safe, and private place to make friends and date.
He fosters a friendly, judgment-free atmosphere where people don’t have to worry about fake profiles or spammer bots. “The security of the site is a top priority for me,” Jim said.
“I take great care in checking all incoming profiles and keeping scammers out of here.” “I found the greatest man I could ever expect to meet on this website… we’re getting married next spring.” — Laura, a No Longer Lonely user Jim told us he checks IP addresses and monitors profile content to ensure everyone on No Longer Lonely is there for the right reasons.
No Longer Lonely is the oldest and largest dating site for adults with mental illness, and it has stayed operational and successful for so long because of the diligent oversight that has kept it free of abusive language and harmful behaviors. Members know they can trust this platform to safeguard their information and deliver a friendly environment where they can meet people who share similar life experiences.
Not everyone thinks to write back to a dating platform after they’ve met someone and walked off into the sunset together, but Jim said he has heard from some couples who said they met and started dating because of his site.
He estimated that No Longer Lonely has already led to over 40 marriages, and he hopes to grow that number over time. No Longer Lonely has inspired countless personal connections between people with mental illness. Going beyond just dating, No Longer Lonely has created an online community where people with mental illness can find all types of interpersonal connections. Whether they want to vent on the chat rooms or flirt in a private chat, the dating site allows people to expresses themselves (so long as they use appropriate language) without fear of judgment.
A majority of No Longer Lonely users (around 70%) live in the US, but the site also has members in 44 other countries, most notably the UK, Canada, and Australia. Jim said members sometimes form international friendships and long-distance relationships on the platform. He told the story of one single woman who flew to England to meet a man who struggled with a social anxiety disorder. They’d been in contact for months before deciding they felt comfortable meeting in person and taking their relationship to the next level.
Online dating can offer people with mental illness a non-intimidating way to explore their dating options and connect with people around the world. Physical boundaries and mental blocks don’t have to limit love on No Longer Lonely. “There’s a luxury to dating someone who has been through similar things,” Jim said.
“I’m fighting against the mindset that’s stacked against us.” Over the years, Jim has made a name for himself as a pioneer in a niche dating space. No Longer Lonely started as the passion project of someone who understands the challenges faced by people with mental illness — and now the online community includes tens of thousands of active members. By providing simple, reliable, and targeted online dating resources, Jim supports singles on the path to good mental health.
“Everyone’s lovable. Everyone has someone out there for them.” — Jim Leftwich, Founder of No Longer Lonely The mission of No Longer Lonely is right there in the name. The niche dating site encourages singles with mental illnesses to find comfort, solidarity, and romance in a safe space designed to meet their needs.
It’s free to join the dating network and make positive strides toward the kind of life you want — and the kind of love you deserve. “It’s good to have companionship and seek love,” Jim said. “Just because you’ve been diagnosed with a mental illness, that doesn’t mean you’re not capable of enjoying everything everyone else does.” About The Author Amber Brooks is a Contributing Editor at DatingAdvice.com.
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