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Who Are You With? Are You Dating or Hanging Out? I was interviewed by “The List” for dating advice to help singles figure out if they are dating or hanging out. Think this just happens to the 20 somethings? Wrong. This is happening more and more to single women of all ages. It can be confusing with some to know if you are dating or just friends. to view the Dating Advice on The List and read more to find out if you are dating or hanging out and what to do to make your desires known.
There’s nothing worse than being out on what you think is a date, only to find out the other person thinks you’re just two friends hanging out. It can be a crushing blow, but it’s something you have the power to avoid. Keep a look out for these 7 signs you’re “hanging out,” not dating (Note: While these are written as tips a woman should look for in a man, most of these are signs men can watch out for in women, too.): • The date was a last-minute invite to tag along to an event.
• He doesn’t offer to pay. Guys looking to impress a girl will at least offer. • He keeps physical distance. If there is physical contact, it’s in the form of a punch on the arm.
• He talks about another girl he’s interested in, or brings up past sexual encounters with other women. • He calls you “buddy” or “pal” or some other equivalent indicating he thinks of you as one of the guys. • There’s no mention of future dates. The only other plan he makes with you is asking if you want to hang out with his friends after dinner.
• He offers to set you up with a friend. If this happens, it’s pretty clear he isn’t interested romantically. Are you Dating or Hanging Out? As we know, there are always two sides to every story. Maybe you’re the one thinking you’re just hanging out with a friend, only to discover they have other intentions.
If you aren’t on board, it can make the evening awkward! Here are 7 ways you can tell if you’re actually on a date instead of spending time with a friend: • He seems nervous to ask you out. Even the most confident men are at least a little nervous when asking out a woman they like. • He uses one of these phrases when asking you out: “have dinner with me,” “I’d like to take you,” or uses the word “date.” • He planned the entire evening, including flowers and a fancy restaurant.
Planning is one of the primary differences between a date and just “hanging out.” • He asks lots of questions while you’re out, indicating he’s trying to get to know you better. • He’s a perfect gentleman. While there are plenty of men who simply have good manners no matter who they’re with, out-of-the-ordinary gentlemanly behavior may mean he thinks the two of you are on a date.
• He makes a move. Anything from hand touching to a goodnight kiss qualifies. • He texts you later. After the date, he texts you saying he had a great time and asks if you got home safe. Or maybe he even texts the next morning to ask if you slept well. Both are signs you were on a date.
It’s likely you’ve been on both sides of the situation at some point. Either way, it’s uncomfortable to say the least!
While you won’t always be able to avoid it, here are a few ways you can be proactive and make sure you know for a fact whether you’re on a date or just “hanging out” with a friend: • Don’t make a date over text. There’s far too much room for misunderstanding and miscommunication.
Through text, you miss out on seeing someone’s body language and hearing their voice – two of the biggest components of communication. • Be clear about your intentions. Before going out, define whether or not you’re going on a date.
Make it easy on everybody and state the obvious. • Talk about the elephant in the room. If you feel like you’re getting mixed signals, ask! • Give clear clues.
If you want it to be a date, make it one. Flirt, touch, and let your body language make it obvious you’re attracted. • Don’t be afraid to make your desires known. If you want to be more than friends, don’t sell yourself short and torture yourself. What does that look like? Saying “no” when asked to hang out, but letting that person know you would say, “yes” to an actual date. Figuring out relationships is tough enough as it is.
Do your part to keep communication and expectations clear in your relationships, whether you’re “hanging out” or dating. In the end, you’ll both be happier for the clarity. For more advice for women, for more dating advice blogs for women.
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I've been with my boyfriend for two years, living together and being ~official~ for one of those years, and it still makes me nervous and jealous, even if I find the other girl completely unattractive and know he has no ounce of interest in her past being a friend.
His natural personality is flirty, and I'm not sure he realizes it. He likes girls' pictures on Facebook, and I assume it's in friendly nature, but I feel that it definitely comes across as being hit on to the girl, as does his everyday conversations with others.
I don't want other girls trying to make a move because they think that door is being open, and I do not want him to be keeping me around just until he falls for someone else just so he's not alone. He's been great the past two years, but he has a history of not being so faithful-- as do I-- but we've both turned that page.
Or, so I hope. It also does not help and downright hurts me that he won't make our relationship ~~Facebook official~~. I don't give a shit about bragging about my relationship on Facebook, BUT the ONLY thing that bothers me about it is that he won't display it. It makes me feel like he is hiding me and leaving the door open for a potential new interest not to be discouraged from trying to spark something with him.
He says he won't change it because it is no one else's business and because I made him feel pressured to do it, but it really bothers me, and I have told him that. He is allowed to have his own life and friends. I just want some sort of security. What about you guys? Do you get even a little jealous when your boyfriend hangs out with his female friends? & How long have you been dating? What about the Facebook situation?
I have lots of male friends and my boyfriend has female friends. I don't think it's wise or healthy to have friends all of the same sex as yourself, even if you are a heterosexual person in a relationship. However, if you are worried about his behavior, that's definitely something that you two should talk about. PS- I've been with my boyfriend for six years and we've never put our relationship on Facebook. If your boyfriend likes other girls photos on Facebook and he's naturally a flirt, you have a problem.
Somebody who doesn't want to make it "Facebook offical"...it's kind of stupid regardless..but if you two live together..making it known to other people is a good thing. I live with my boyfriend and we've been dating almost 2 years. We don't hang out with the opposite sex alone. He has his guy friends over, I have my girl friends over!
He knows better than asking to hangout with a girl because he knows if it was the other way around, he wouldn't like it either. It's not a matter of not trusting somebody either, it's respect. There's no reason your boyfriend should be hanging out with another girl.
I'm sorry but if I was in your situation I would leave him. Obviously talk to him first, but if he kept it up, I would be done. Social media ruins relationships ONLY if you let it. I trust my boyfriend, I just f*cking hate girls. So clingy and whiny. Like dude, he's your friend not your tree to climb on. Most friends my boyfriend and I have are mutual, and I love all of them. Females included, but you have to be damn lucky to get on my good side so these femme friends are the badasses of badassness.
I love them to bits and pieces and I'm sure my boyfriend does as well. I feel similar as Karijeank. I'm okay with my boyfriend having female friends and whatnot, as long as he is open about it and invites me to hang out with them and whatnot. I trust him, but it's other females I don't trust with him. Some women are vicious. If it was something he was to hide from me and such, it would be grounds for me to break up with him about. And regarding the facebook thing, I felt the same way when I was with my ex.
But he went as far as to blocking me on facebook and lying to me about even using it to begin with. I never met any of his friends either.
I felt like he was ashamed of me, or ashamed that I was his girlfriend. This was also one of the many reasons why I broke up with him. But over all I do agree that social media does screw up relationships.
My boyfriend and I are "facebook official" but we rarely, if ever interact with each other via facebook. He only uses it to talk to his mother. And I know this because he openly shows me and tells me about it. I had a boyfriend who didn't want anyone to know we were together but I told people anyways and did it anyways and it ended out relationship lololol.
He had the same excuse as your boyfriend too! I mean if you feel that way speak to him about it. You should be with someone who wants to be with you and only you! Personally, I get a little jealous if my boyfriend had female friends but just cause I fell for a guy friend, and I know how easily romantic interests can happen that way.
Hoe would you guys feel if you end up pregnant by your boyfriend. ...you used to go out and smoke cigarettes with him....because there is no smoking h in the house and we happen to room with his brother and his girlfriend who was my friend since junior high.
...but now that I'm no longer smoking and partying. ...all of them leave me to go next store. ...and times when his brother. ...her boyfriend is at work and we're home....she goes next store to go steal some pulls from his cigarette like I used to when I was smoking....am I being overly jealous here???
Or do I have a right to feel this way??? Personally no. But we have been that way from day one and he feels the same about me hanging out with a guy without him. I don't mind if he is with friends and their girlfriends are there but I don't like the idea of a girl spending alone time with my man. I trust him more than anything but that doesn't stop girls from being homewreckers To stop liking, commenting, etc.
on other females'/males' pictures and stuff is easy. Especially if my other half doesn't feel comfortable with it. To me, its not really a big deal. If my other half feels uncomfortable, why make them feel even more uncomfortable? Why continue to make them feel that way?
I would never want someone I love to feel less. If that makes any sense lol my hubby and I have mutual feelings on this subject though so it may be different for others.
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