I want to immediately warn you – a relationship with sexy new Zealand girls will not be an easy walk. Yes, these ladies possess the character of Maori, even if outwardly their habits resemble the habits of the girls from the Downton Abbey if you know what I mean. But for a real man, this state of affairs only adds to the excitement and desire to get one of these beauties. So, if you have enough time, you are single and you recently arrived in New Zealand (or you read this article on the way there), then you got to the address: I will tell you everything I know about new Zealand women and even.
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That is why I wrote it. About the author: Mr. L. Rx is the author of the Dating To Relating website (www.DatingToRelating.com – the Internet’s second most popular “dating tip” site for men with over 500,000 unique visitors per month) and the author of the eReport “How I Got 700 Dates In One Year.” In his fifties, Mr.
L. Rx has some times been called the “Observational Guru” rather than a “Dating Guru” as it is his ability to observe throughout his fifty plus years of experience that allows him to share dozens of unique dating and relationship strategies that apply to different personality types and different situations.
Unlike other “Gurus” who give you one strategy that works for them and then apply it to “all men or women,” Mr. L. Rx acknowledges that people have different personalities and that different personalities require different strategies.
Mr. L. Rx’s techniques and strategies work for any man no matter what he looks like. Mr. L. Rx points out that he personally has had thousands of dates with beautiful young women in his forties and fifties whereas in his teen years and early twenties when he was a hot-looking young man in his prime, he couldn’t get a date.
Mr. L. Rx teaches men and women his unique “observational technology” which allows you to develop your own situationally correct strategies for your own situation and personality in addition to Mr.
L. Rx giving you dozens of already tried and proven techniques of his own. Mr. L. Rx believes that successful relationships develop from sane dating habits and technique, and that communication, observation, and create are the foundations of a successful relationship.
Mr. L. Rx is a firm champion of monogamy when in a committed relationship and a firm believer in “multiple dating” when not in a committed relationship. Mr. L. Rx believes in family values and is the proud father of four children (three girls and a boy.) Dating To Relating – From A To Z (A Man’s Guide To Understanding Women) By Mr. L. Rx Dating To Relating is a complete guide for men.
You will learn how to meet women, attract women, pick-up women, seduce women, establish a relationship, relate to women and marry women. Dating to Relating is not a simple “Numbers Game” strategy that tells you to go out and do something over and over again that you are totally uncomfortable with.
Instead is gives you a number of situational strategies that you can use immediately for different personality types and different situations.
It also gives you a dating technology which teaches you how to develop your own “dating strategy” unique to you, your personality, the personality of the women you are interested in and other situational variables.
There is nothing else like Dating To Relating on the market. Nowhere else will you find a book that will take you all the way from meeting women to marrying them, and nowhere else will you find a book with both dating and relationship strategies and dating and relationship technologies.
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There is a mix of good/ mature advice and bad/misleading advice in this book. If you use it, you'll end up wasting a lot of time - especially if you are a beginner.
So we don't recommmend you buy it. Exception: if you are experienced (so you can tell what won't work) and don't mind spending the money/time there are valuable concepts and tools you can add to your game.
FULL DETAILED REVIEW Dating to Relating is one of the beginner level dating advice books for men that you see promoted the most on the Internet. It has some original and useful concepts in it, and makes an attempt to simplify the world of dating for men. Unfortunately, the good stuff is hidden within a lot of bad advice that would confuse beginners. Mature Advice and Relationships If I was to say Mr. L. Rx stood out for one thing, it would be the maturity of his perspectives and advice.
What do I mean by that? For a start, many of the perspectives I have towards relationships and women that took me quite a while to understand - from the accumulation of experience rather than dating advice (which didn't exist at the time) - he has included here. Mr. L. Rx. hammers on about his philosophy with women and how it leads to healthier relationships and greater satisfaction for you.
He gives you some great mindsets and ways of looking at what you should be doing if you want to ensure relationships last. For example, his insights into the importance of women feeling 'safe' and what that means are all valuable and true. And these are often underestimated in dating advice, especially where it concerns relationship skills advice.
Some Nice Original Content Scattered throughout the book are some useful concepts that I really appreciated - examples are "negative sex talk" and "creating future". They've made it into my personal stash of useful ways of thinking about dating and relationships - that's pretty hard to do these days. Mr L. Rx's maturity shone through here again. Ok, time to move to the not so good... Failed Attempt to Simplify Dating Advice In Dating to Relating the author begins by discussing the weaknesses of other dating authors' products, and telling you why his is better.
He tells you that ' women are different' and that all the other dating gurus' methods and systems don't take this into account. Note: This was true at the time, but no longer. has a product that also takes different women personalities into account named . " Dating to Relating's system" focuses nearly completely on different approaches for women with different personalities. On the whole it stays away from teaching you any skills that would be useful with all women, except where he talks about some general rules for relationships.
This can be very appealing to beginners, however, does it work? The answer is that some of the approaches have some value and could work in some situations, but overall, this system doesn't work. There are two big issues with it: the approaches are outdated and the part of the system used to understand what type a woman is, doesn't work. Outdated Dating Strategies Perhaps these approaches given in Dating to Relating did work in the past where social dynamics were less complicated in bars / clubs.
Twenty or thirty years ago, when Mr. L Rx was using these techniques the world was less complicated. People were a lot more straightforward for many reasons and it was easier to differentiate yourself. However today, from experience, I can say the strategies given are far too simplistic. You'll basically have to get lucky to come across a girl these strategies are still relevant for. As a result, maybe these strategies will work 1 in 10 or 1 in 20 times.
In the past, the personalities of everyone were less individualistic. The growth of the availability of media and choice in the world has fueled each of us taking our own paths to more independent thinking, and as a result individual personalities. Women today are more complex than the basic types he gives us - they've had a greater range of influences and experiences.
In any of the international cities of the world which are multi-cultural, this would really come to light. If you are based in New York, London, Los Angeles or any other big city outside of the U.S. - the over simplistic approaches described will be clearer to you even more quickly. Strange and Misleading Advice About Women's Feet Another problem with this system is that the way 'Dating to Relating' teaches you to know what type of his personalities a woman is (lover girl, gradient girl, tease etc.) doesn't work.
This was the most curious thing I found in this book. It was out of place, because it was so bad. Mr L. Rx gives you misleading and weird advice about people's feet.
He tells you that you should look at women's feet to understand what type of personality they have and the approach that will work with them.
I had never heard of this, and was very dubious, so I felt compelled to do some real due diligence. I researched it and tried to find some psychological study or something to support it. Nothing. I also spent a couple of weeks checking out the feet of women and the way they stood and walked, before I spoke to them and...
all I can say is, the principles he discusses had no relationship with what happened in the real world. So if you get this - ignore everything he has to say about women's feet ;-) More importantly though, this puts a big gap in the whole system, since you will be left to your own means to identify what type of girl she is (and the resulting dating to relating approach) you should use....
Promotion of Dating to Relating on the Net We fast tracked the review of this product relative to others because it is heavily marketed on the Internet and some of our users have asked about it as a result. You see a lot of sites pushing the book, and saying that it is better than and 's advice.
We had the concern that it was being pushed because of commercial incentives, rather than due to the quality of the advice. Our conclusion is that whilst it isn't a bad product, and contains some good and at times very mature advice, it in no way deserves the hype and ratings that I've seen on some of those sites.
One of our users alerted me that Amazon.com has a lot of positive user reviews for this product.... I actually relooked over my notes when I saw this, in case I may have missed something. I hadn't. But as I went over my notes I could see how to 'beginners' to dating advice, "Dating to Relating" could come across very well. It does a good job of conveying to the reader that it is very good advice they are getting (by pointing out feasible weaknesses in other dating guru advice), and some of the advice indeed, is very good.
But some of the advice is also not very good, and even misleading. That's the advice that would lead you to waste your time trying to use some of it because it doesn't work.
The Bottom Line I personally took some nice takeaways from this book in terms of how to look at longer term relationships with women.
Mr. L Rx is certainly older than the average dating coach, in his 50s, and his maturity shows through with some of his better quality advice. On the other hand, there is some misleading advice in the book also. If you use it, you'll end up wasting a lot of time - especially if you are a beginner, which this book is aimed at.
So at Dating Skills Review we don't recommmend you buy this book. The exception I'd make, is if you have a lot of time, you've already read a fair amount of dating advice and have some experience (so you can tell what won't work) and don't mind spending the money. I did take some interesting take a ways from this book after all. This ebook teaches men how to meet, seduce, date, and turn a woman into a girlfriend. It also shows you how to be yourself when interacting with women and what it takes to develop a relationship.
Some of the areas covered include: - Picking up women in clubs and bars - Recognizing if a woman has a compatible personality - An example of the art of seduction - Making love to a woman Bonuses include: - How I Got 700 Dates in One Year - How To Be A Great Lover Table of Contents/ List of Topics Covered: - How to correctly reject women - Defining your ideal woman - First date techniques to ensure success - How to develop a growing relationship - Techniques to help you establish a relationship - Strategies for meeting women in various environments - How to plan for a future relationship with a woman - Getting women to approach you first and make the first moves - Getting into your comfort zone in order to approach women - How to use pickup lines and techniques, and develop your own - Techniques to use following the first date to ensure future dates - How to improve your close rate on meeting and asking women for a date - Adjusting your communication according to a woman’s personality type - Using the same subtle and gradient communications that women use - Situational strategies for meeting different types of women in various situations - Understanding how different types of women think and the approach for each of them What You Get: eBook Guarantee / Terms: N/A Hide Details This is not a book for beginners or someone seeking to just pick up women.
That is as far as most of the noted dating gurus are going to get you. This material, and lots of Mr. L. Rx material assumes you already have figured out that just going out and getting sex, might be enough for some.
For anyone wanting more than just getting to a sexual point, I haven't seen anything that compares. The closest thing is the newest product from David D.
where even the video on the introduction to his new material he states everything he has told people up until now is wrong. He might want to rewrite that script. Although there is a place for getting to be comfortable with meeting women and enjoying sex, understand some of the language from Mr.
L. Rx may sound strange, but read it within the context of his material. He is not trying to compete against the pickup artist. The assumption is you have that figured out. I can state as a former player, and someone that knows the difference between sex, love, and intimacy, going out and scoring sex for a night is not love or intimacy.
His idea of future as he puts it in this book is that you always need to have something relevant to future with another person. Face it there are 3 billion women on this planet.
And, understand you won't change the other person, as they won't change you. Understand the difference between lust and love. Enjoy finding sex as much as you want, but when seeking a woman for a long term relationship there is a bit of a difference. You have to have some compromise. But stay as a Man. The idea of future is don't get too comfortable, continue to evolve, or your relationship won't last. If you are happy with just scoring and having sex, that is your choice.
It is so much better if you can find someone eventually and have a relationship. Unless you want to be with someone that has a focus on drinking, don't go and meet women at a bar. They are everywhere. You would be surprised how when sex is not the ultimate goal, but the personality becomes important even a 10 on the outside may not be as important.
As someone that is a natural with women and a joker, I do enjoy doing what is not expected, but if you are seeking a relationship, enjoy sex as much as you want, but find your girlfriend or maybe even a marriage based on what you like. That is part of what Mr.
L. Rx tries to get across. If you enjoy climbing mountains, playing some sport, whatever, as far as a relationship you will be more satisfied.
And realize there are few women that are not very aware of most of what dating gurus sell. Mr. L. Rx tries to get you to understand to use some of that, but incorporate it into your own personality.
I don't understand women completely and I don't think a man can, but if you are seeking more than just going out and getting sex for a night, his material especially DatingtoRelating A-Z is great.
As someone that figured out how to get women on my own, it is interesting to have stumbled on this dating guru stuff. Having compared most of the noted gurus, there is a lot of contradiction in their ideas, but you do need confidence, fun, know what a MAN is, and enjoy life. Women do love stories, but make sure you are interested in them, not interesting. And if you want a good match, don't fake things, just to get sex.
I think you will see products from David D. start to focus more this direction. I would not even attempt to write this, as it is different than just scoring, but men realize you are the prize, women actually enjoy sex more than men, they just need to be comfortable with you, if it is more than one night.
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THE PROBLEM WITH DATING “GURUS” The problem is simple. They only tell you how to meet and attract women. They don’t tell you how to RELATE and KEEP them. Relationships – what a topic to tackle. Even the mightiest of dating gurus don’t tackle that one. WHY? Because it is a lot more complicated then just getting someone to meet you , hang out with you a few times, etc.
A lot of the principles that go into a successful relationship for a man, are the same principles that are required when trying to attract and/or meet women. First of all, there are different types of relationships that people have. Among the types of sexual relationships men and women have are: Prostitution (pay for sex) One night stands Friends with privileges Dating with casual sex Lovers only.
Arrangements (You take care of me, I’ll take care of you) Multiple Lovers Swinging Affairs (cheating on someone) Girlfriend/Boyfriend Living together Marriage. Divorce (Yes some people even have sex after marriage, sort of friends with privileges phase again.) So the first question we have to ask when talking about relationships is “What Kind” of relationship.
There are different rules and different procedures for establishing each kind of relationship. But before we get too far down that direction, let’s also remember there are different personality types both for men and women. Different personalities types want different things out of a relationship, they also interact differently — some compatibly, some boringly, others not so compatibly.
THROW that on top of the different types of relationships and you already have a complicated mess. NO WONDER the DATING GURUS don’t tackle this stuff! It is hard to generalize about relationships because the complexities of the above interactions make it a vastly complicated subject. It takes a guy with REAL EXPERIENCE with ALL KINDS of different relationships and all kinds of different personalities, and a guy who is old enough for his own personality to have undergone various changes throughout his life, to even be half-way qualified to shed some light on this subject.
WELL HERE I AM, Let me introduce myself again. I am Mr. L. Rx. Been there. Done that. And lucky for you, I understand it and can explain it. (I’m not the only guy who has been there and done that, but I may be one of the few who understands it and can explain it SITUATIONALLY and in DETAIL. EVERYTHING is SITUATIONAL when it comes to meeting and relating to women. Different personalities (yours and the woman’s) and different types of relationships require a complexity of different strategies.
Thus you can see it evolves that the strategies or technologies of meeting and relating to women are numerous and complex themselves, because basically you need a different strategy for EACH DIFFERENT SITUATION you find yourself in. Some strategies appear to be the exact opposite of other strategies. (If you read my article about meeting women in bars when I was 25, you will know what I am talking about) THIS is what most DATING GURUS don’t tell you.
They learn one strategy that works in one situation, tell you about it and then tell you it is a numbers game. IT IS NOT A NUMBERS GAME! 90% of the woman I target, I get a date with. 90% of the women I get a first date with, I get and second and third if I want. 99% of the woman who go out with me on a second date with me want a relationship with me. 99% of the woman I go out with who actually want to get married, want to marry me after anywhere from 3 dates (the crazy ones) to a year. DOES THIS MEAN I am saying you or I can get ANY GIRL he wants.
No. I am not saying that. (Although it is possible and I show you “how” in the book under the section on Seduction!) What I am saying is that if you learn the situational technologies of how to meet and relate to women, and you qualify prospects (like any good salesman) – and you will find there are lots of qualified prospects– you will close a large % of them if you use the techniques I will be teaching you.
(When I say CLOSE I mean that the girl wants a second date with you. I don’t mean that you actually have to go out with 90% of the girls you meet on a second date.
90% of the girls I meet want to go out on a second date with me. However, I only want to go out with about 5% of the girls I meet-not because they are not pretty but because I am beyond that – all the girls I date are pretty, but I am looking for a certain personality that is a good prospect for marriage and I won’t settle for anything less.) Though I will go into each of these complex interactions of relationships and personalities elsewhere, for now, let us stay focused for the moment on the commonalities we find in any of the above relationships.
Just as in music there may be vast difference between genres such a Rap, Country and Western, Pop, and Rock.
The differences are so vast that if you were an artist and you approached performing one genre the exact same way you did another- you would be a big time loser. However, still, there are commonalities in music that underlie and are true for all of these genres.
Knowing the basics would make you a good musician/performer and give you an ability to cross genre and do well modifying and adding to your basics situationally as the genre demanded. So let me recap, There are a multitude of relationships. Personality is not a constant for men or women, which two factors themselves generates a huge amount of different strategies or technologies of meeting and relating to women.
BUT, Lucky for you the Commonalities of relating to people are MUCH MORE IMPORTANT than the situational variables. Because the big mistakes you make in relating to people and woman are violating BASIC common principles.
If you are a guy and you find yourself unable to develop a relationship with ANY woman. I guarantee you are violating basic common principles. If you can have relationships with some women, but can’t understand others or the kind you would like to understand, you are violating situational principles.
Here is another way of saying it: If women are constantly breaking up with you, you are violating basic common principles of relating. If you are constantly breaking up with women, you are violating situational common principles. In either case DATING TO RELATING – the book, can help you.
Here are a few of the things you will learn from it: -How to step-by-step develop a relationship. How to meet women and what to do on dates 1,2,3,4,5, etc. -How to avoid the mistakes guys make in the early stages of dating.
The mistakes that “doom” a relationship. -The best defense against having a bad relationship. – perspective — the ability to have plenty of women to chose from. -How to have 3-5 women who want to marry you BEFORE you make a decision. -How to prospect for and qualify women. YES, just like a salesmen, you need to qualify women to get the kind of woman who is best for you and that you can relate to effortlessly. -How to get women to do what you want without having to bitch at them. -How to communicate to a woman in ways that she will understand.
-What to communicate to women about. -When to communicate to a woman. -How to understand what women are really saying. -How to know what your woman really wants. -How to have multiple relationships, arrangements, lovers and other non-traditional relationships. -How to have multiple relationships without lying to anyone. -How to get a woman to have the kind of relationship YOU want to have without having to lie to her.
-How NOT to lose your soul (integrity) just for a little SEX! -How to seduce a woman. (How to get and keep any women you want!) -How to develop and maintain Romance in a relationship forever! -How to be a good lover! (how to satisfy women in bed) -How to have a beautiful loving relationship with one woman the rest of your life!
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