Comparing yourself to your ex's new partner, whether to wonder if they're better than you or to wonder if they're similar to you, will lead you down the wrong line of reasoning. People don't choose people based on checklists; each person will appeal to someone for a different reason Your ex just happened to stumble upon someone else before you did. That doesn't reflect poorly on you When my ex first got a new girlfriend, I feared that it endangered the friendship we formed post-breakup. But even if it changed the dynamics of our relationship a bit, it didn't change how he felt. Getting into relationships in the past at least hasn't changed the way I cared about my exes. If anything, it has helped me know that my friendships with exes were genuine and not ploys to get back together.
Here's the transcript of the above content: If you want to get back together with your ex, but he or she is now dating someone new, then this video is for you. In fact, i’m going to tell you how your ex’s new ‘lover’ could actually help you win them back in the long run.
I’m brad browning, by the way… i’m a relationship coach and author of the ex factor, a guide that teaches men and women how to rebuild a broken relationship and rekindle things with an ex. So, I should first say that this video is mainly for those who broke up within the past year or so.
The same things may apply if your breakup happened long ago, but that’s a topic i’ll cover in another video. Let’s start by talking about rebounds. In most cases, the new guy or girl your ex is now dating is a “rebound”. A “rebound” relationship is essentially just what the name suggests: a ‘quick fix’ for your ex to get through the sadness and loneliness that they are experiencing in the wake of your breakup.
Keep in mind, by the way, that breaking up with someone can actually be even more difficult and gut-wrenching than being broken up with. that means that even though your ex may have been the one to initiate the breakup, it’s highly likely that they are just as heartbroken as you are right now.
So, what’s the easiest way to get through the difficult post-breakup emotions and sadness? Occupy your time and keep yourself busy by finding someone new. In all likelihood, if your ex has ‘replaced’ you with someone new quickly after breaking up with you, then this person is probably just a “rebound” to help them get over the breakup blues.
And believe it or not, this rebound relationship can often be good news for you if you want to get back together with your ex. I know what you’re thinking right now…. you’re asking yourself, “how the hell can my ex replacing me with some loser help me get them back?” Well, the answer is actually fairly simple. first of all, assuming that this new person that your ex is dating is just a rebound relationship — some guy or girl that your ex met in a nightclub and hit it off with — then it’s nothing serious.
They’re probably not doing candlelit dinners at fancy italian restaurants… they’re just hanging out now and then, relying on the physical side of their relationship to maintain the bond.
While it may be painful to hear that your ex is just seeing this new guy / girl for the sex, that’s actually a good thing for you. It means that they probably don’t have much in common, and they certainly don’t have the same kind of bond that you and your ex had. Most rebound relationships last 3-5 weeks. while that’s certainly not a hard and fast rule, it’s true for most scenarios. That means that it’s extremely likely your ex’s rebound relationship will be over soon.
Once the rebound ends, your ex is going to have to face the reality of their situation… they’re single, lonely, and they no longer have anyone to keep their mind off of you!
While your ex has been delaying this inevitable surge of heartache and loneliness, you’ve already been dealing with those emotions. your ex’s rebound just delayed this, and now that the rebound is over, these emotions will surface again.
Now that your ex’s rebound relationship is over, it’s time to pounce. Because your ex is depressed and lonely — and because they just spent a few weeks dating someone who wasn’t nearly as compatible as you were — you’re probably going to start looking like a very good option.
So, with your ex in a fragile state and looking for a quick fix to heal their heartache, you can pounce on the situation by re-establishing communication with your ex.
Don’t mention their rebound relationship, and don’t tell them that you want to get back together. Instead, simply start talking with them again — in a casual, friendly, and upbeat way. The goal is just to remind your ex that you’re still around, that you’re still a great person with whom they once shared a deep romantic connection, and that getting back together with you is an easy and fast way to make the emotional pain go away.
In a sense, then, you’re using your ex’s rebound relationship to make yourself look good. And you’re subtly reminding your ex that love isn’t an easy thing to find. So, if you see your ex with someone new, don’t panic… celebrate! Because, if you play your cards right, their rebound relationship might just help you win them back. Obviously i’ve simplified things here to fit this all into one video, so if you’ve got questions, please feel free to leave a comment below and i’ll do my best to answer.
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Download videos: In this video Rory outlines how to act when you've found out your Ex is dating a new person. This is an important one!! If you would like coaching on your situation please visit www.TheLoveChat.net/coaching If you would like exclusive videos, giveaways, and private live-streams with Rory visit: carlos cabrera If they're dating somebody new, it's also a new blow of insult to the fresh wound of breaking up the relationship.
It's disrespecting twice. It's a double kick. Would you really want to get back with someone that had the courage to break what you considered valuable and this person knew it. ? This person gave twice a rat ass about your feelings and then decided to hurt you even more. ? Dreambignow I have been though this before. My ex started to meet someone new only 1 week after the breakup and yes it was painful as F*CK but I said to my self, I rather kill my self than taking her back!
After almost 4 years of relationship and to jump straight away with someone new? Nah not on my watch! If she could do something so heartless right after a relationship then she’s a person that I could never trust.
I took it as cheating! But the funny part is after a couple of weeks her so called new lover dumped her och what happend after that? You guessed right she started to contact me and saying that she was sorry and she wasn’t her self and was confused and so on. My reaction was hahahahaha that’s what you get bitch it’s called karma KARMA!!! What goes around comes around and you just tasted you’re own medicine and I hope I tasted good!
Then I blocked her completely! Have som self respect guys and girls! Don’t let anyone take you for granted! You are great as you are you deserves the best in life! Peace and love to all of you out there ❤️ Clegsta 88 I have been split up with my ex for 3 months, 2nd of september.
I acted needy and anxious and on the day of break up i went out, got drunk and seemingly she called later that night and I said some rude things....afterwards I apologied as I acted out of character. Told her I loved her and didn't want to break up. Left it a few days emailed and apologised again, then a week again then another week. I was blocked on Facebook, what's app etc. So literally 6 weeks from the break up I find out she has changed her Facebook post with her and another guy.
Pulled her up about it. Acted needy again and she told me it was her friend. I thought BS. Done some snooping and found out that a guy from her work had changed his profile pic aswell to them both. I was heart broken. I had been with this girls 5 years ago for 2 years, got back together in May 2017 for a few months, been to Paris, weddings, loads of activities and literally 6 weeks after a break up he gets posted on her Facebook as a profile pic, meanwhile previously when I was with her she didn't post any of us....absoutly broke my heart!
Don't know if it was done to make me jealous or whatever but she had blocked me from everything so she thought I wouldn't find out. I don't really know what to think now. Been no contact for 1 month solid now I love and miss this girl with everything even though really I shouldn't. I don't know what to do. I am working on myself, even seeing someone else....but it's not the woman I truly want! I just feel one day I'll settle for someone that I don't truly desire and want.
Working on yourself I'd a huge thing I get it but how can anyone stand back and met their girl just walk all over you whilst they are seeing someone else?
Even though we are told not to worry? Just want to know what's going on in her head - literally I was her best option, nice house, car, good job.
We even talked about marriage and she showed me engagement rings. Then a guy that she works with, lives 50 miles away where she works (she now has left her job but works in another office in the same city) they are both on each other's Facebook. Any help/advise welcomed Pistache 13 My girlfriend dumped me 2 months ago, we had an amazing relationship, we just had 1 fight during 1 year and 3 months we dated. Suddenly one day she told me she wasnt sure about us, I wasnt expecting it.
When I dropped her at her house I cried and I couldnt control it, she told me she still wasnt sure of the decision, but I told her it was better to split for her to be at her full and not doubting of us.
The following month she texted me and I always answered her in a polite way. 1 month after I saw on Facebook a guy was calling her "babe" so I got pissed and sent her text. We arrange a meeting to talk. I atrived to her house and her mother treated me really nice, I thought we would come back, but the end wasnt happy. I tried to gave her a kiss but she denied. When we sat to talk, I asked her if it was because of the guy I told.
She kind of accepted it, I got angry and eventhough I didnt offend her I said some bad stuff. She didnt want to give us a 2nd chance. 2 days after she sent me a text telling me I was importante for her and she cares for me, I answered her that I wanted to fight for her, but she didnt say anything at all. We barely talked that week until I stopped. I tried to do no contact but a week after I sent her a text because it was a special date for us.
I asked her to go out, at the beginning she accepted but then she just ignored the idea. So 2 weeks ago I sent her the last text, telling her that she could take the time she needs, days, weeks or months because I want to see her happy.
She thanked me a lot and now we have 2 weeks of no contact. Please help me, I still love her. Imogen Atkinson My ex found someone new 1 month after our 2 year relationship ended - we had recently become long distant after living together so our relationship became incredibly hard.
They met by chance and started seeing each other straight away, posting all over social media about their relationship straight away as well. They've now been seeing each other for 2 months but she lives on the opposite side of the world. She is the complete opposite of me personality wise and their relationship has developed the complete opposite of how ours did (we became friends and it developed from there whereas they just met and were automatically dating).
Is there any chance at all this is a rebound or not? I have changed a lot in the past 3 months and I want to show him this but I don't know how as we don't have each other on any form of social media? Please any advice would be great, even just how I can reinitiate contact with him! Jess Andujo Uuurgh, why is everyone so bitter?
My ex had broken up with me to date another girl. It hurt like a mother but he had the decency to cut me loose. He worked on the radio so I had the pleasure of hearing them both be all lovey dovey. After I cut all communication he returned some months later saying he missed me when I left. After a decade of us together, we talked about her.
If it had not been for her, we wouldn’t have been together and happy all of this time. He left her, so maybe that made a difference in me taking him back.
Ken Yusuf Hi Rory, Need help on my situation. Was with my ex gf for 4.5 yrs, we were very happy, compatible, she was head over heels in love with me from true heart.
Last April 2017 her parents introduced her some rich guys and she broke up with me but kept in touch till this Jan 2018, but she said she was not with anyone of them (not sure if she was lying to me or saying the truth).
So mid of 15th Jan 2018, I told her that we been going so good why not get back together and then she changed instantly, saying she wants to live a luxury and wealthy life and blocked me on all means of communication and i didnt reach out since then but just last week 15th Feb she unblocked me everywhere but didnt reach out to me neither did i. Just today 25th Feb, 2018, I saw yesterday she went to her friends birthday party and her friends posted some pics on Instagram (I think my ex is not aware of this) and i saw she was hugging and holding this guy's hand.
So she is with someone but why unblocked me on everywhere and not contacting me. Looks like she wants a super rich guy to provide her a luxury life... What shall i do? Rosemarie_Fit What if your ex cowardly ended the relationship by completely ghosting after an argument? Idk if he’s seeing anyone new.
We live 2 hrs apart and we argued about our distance. I’m 7 weeks deep in NC. I tried to reach him for a week after he went silent then I gave up. Together 6 mos, otherwise a very happy relationship. Oddly enough the last couple texts I sent a week after he went silent (just before thanksgiving) are showing he didn’t open them until Dec 22nd. But didn’t hear a peep from him for Thxgiving, Xmas, NYE, or my bday. Staff Chad Hey dude love your channel and have subscribed Have a brief question about my situation - me and the ex had been dating 14 months long distance (approx 100 miles).
Broke up with me in late November, reasons being she was depressed and “weighing me down” - however I suspect she got sick of the long distance and wanted something more convenient.
Low and behold she’s appears to now be in a relationship with someone much closer to her - have to say he’s a step down from me looks wise and not her normal type at all. I haven’t contacted her at all since the break up - not at Xmas or new year. The only thing I’ve done is unfollowed her on Instagram and then blocked/unblocked her so she wasn’t following me anymore (she then unliked all the photos on my profile that she had liked previously LOL) and I unfriended her and her mum on FB after I saw a video of her getting with a guy I suspected she was moving to on a friend of hers Instagram story.
She hasn’t posted anything on social media since (apart from a picture of her dog which I’m pretty sure was aimed at me - I fuccking love her dog). When I unfriended on FB she changed her status on fb a day later to in a relationship and started tagging this new guy in memes and Comments etc. I’m a little worried my unfriending her has communicated I want nothing to do with her ever again and pushed her away a little - I did the unfriending on NYs day.
You think this is the case? She may be in my city one day and I want her to hit me up when she does Jens R Hi Rory, I have another question for you. On the end of this vid you said that some people blow their shot because they were not ready.
My ex reached out 2 weeks ago to me just asking how I was doing and some more info about my life. She broke the NC after only 40days NC (Break up was on 27th of January) so it was to fast for me... I did not cry or beg but i told her i missed her, was working on some issues + still loved her because it was to fast.
Then I told her to only reach out to me when she will change her mind (like I respond on your other vid yesterday). Her reaction was '' OK, but you can always text me if you want''.
She was surprised because she said she was over me and was happy and I was still in a way of struggling. 'So Rory did I blew it or not? Do you still see a chance? This is the last question I will ask you because it stays in my head and drives me crazy haha :) LINKGT23 She broke up with me in late December, because of our situation not because we didn’t get along or lost love and started seeing someone new right away(about 2 weeks).
After I fixed the situation she told me she is seeing someone. I met with her a couple times already and have helped her financially. I asked her if we still get along great, why don’t we just get back together, her answer is always he hasn’t done anything bad for me to leave him. So what should I do ?
She did say she still has feelings for me just not as strong as they where. I’m lost don’t know what to do ?
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It may take some time for your ex to lose interest in the guy if you don’t do anything about it because 65% of rebound relationships (a rebound relationship is the relationship a person has immediately after breaking up another long term relationship) end within 6 months.
He might just be using her and will break up with her in a couple of months, or he might end up turning her off and getting dumped. If you don’t want to wait that long, you need to get stuck into fixing your issues (i.e. insecurity) and improving the things about you that caused her to lose respect, attraction and love for you. Watch this video to understand the process that your ex likely went though before breaking up with you and the process you need to guide her through to get her back… If she is already dating someone else, she usually won’t just drop everything with him and come running back to you on her own.
So, what you need to do is get yourself ready to get on a phone call with her, get her to agree to meet up with you in person and then re-attract her at the meet up. Watch this video to understand why a lot of guys fail when trying to get an ex back and what you need to do instead to ensure that you succeed in getting another chance with her… As you will discover from the video above, your ex is only going to care that you want her back when you can make her feel the type of respect and attraction that she will need to feel to justify breaking it off with him and giving you another shot.
It is possible to do (I’ve heard back from 100s of guys with success stories in this type of situation), but you have to be prepared to put in some effort to improve your ability to make her feel the type of respect and attraction that she wants to experience with you.
The Shock of Finding Out That She is Moving On What can be shocking for a guy after a break up is to realize that even before the dust has settled, his ex is already dating someone else.
This can be upsetting to a guy for several reasons. He is: • Still in love with her and is hoping for a chance to get her back before she falls in love with the new guy and loses interest in the love that they once shared together. • Wondering if she was already cheating on him or flirting with that guy before she broke up with him.
If so, he feels betrayed by her and worried that he won’t be able to keep her or another woman faithful in a relationship. • He is finding it difficult to meet a new woman because other women just don’t make him feel the same way as his ex does.
Whatever you are feeling about your ex right now, the fact is that you are at a crossroads in your life. You can either: • Sit around moping and feeling unworthy of the love of women (including your ex). • Move on from her by hooking up with new, beautiful women. • Do what is required to get her back and then make the relationship even better than it was before.
Getting dumped by a woman can be one of the best opportunities for you to ride that wave of motivation to get her back and use it to fuel your desire to become an even better man that you are right now. If you are serious about getting another chance with her, use that desire to focus on rapidly transforming yourself into the type of guy that not only she will feel attracted to, but most other women will too.
Attracting women is a skill that can be learned. If a guy lacks the ability to make a woman feel a lot of attraction for his personality, confidence and vibe when he interacts with her, he will always struggle to pick up new women or keep a woman feel attracted when in a relationship. Watch this video to understand how a woman’s attraction for a man works… As you will discover from the video above, you can actually make yourself appear more attractive than the new guy that your ex is now dating.
When you talk to her on the phone or meet up with her in person, she is going to feel more attracted to you if you are more charismatic, masculine and confident than he is in terms of how you think, behave and act around her.
She will contrast you against him and if you suddenly seem more appealing, she will more open to hooking up with you again and giving the relationship another chance. At the very least, she will become more open to seeing you again and taking it slow.
Decide What You Really Want With Her The first question that you really have to ask yourself is, “Why do I care that my ex is already dating someone else?” Is it because your confidence with women has taken a hit and you’re feeling a hurt that she has been able to get over you so quickly? Do you really think that she is the girl for you, or are you just trying to get some emotional revenge by getting her back and then dumping her when you are ready? You can do whatever you want, but have a think about why you’re ready doing it.
If you don’t care about her and are secretly intending to move on once you get her back, you might find it easier to just begin hooking up with new, beautiful women (who you find more attractive than her) and that will automatically fix your confidence issues with women.
On the other hand, if you care that your ex is dating someone else because you are still in love with her and want to give the relationship another chance, then you should take action to get her back. The new guy she is dating might make her feel excited and happy for a while, but if he lacks the fundamental attractive qualities that women look for in a long term companion, she’s going to gradually lose interest in him.
Right now, she might seem to be really happy with the new guy and may have even said that. However, don’t let that put you off. As long as you are making her feel attracted when you interact with her on the phone or in person, she will feel more attraction for you if she sees that you are confident and unashamed in going after what you want. She will be impressed that you have the balls to say, “I’m glad you’re happy with the new guy, but I’m not going to hide the fact that I want you back.
I love you and I hope that we can have another chance to be together one day. “ Important: She will only be impressed by that if you’ve already gotten her respect back and have been making her feel attracted to you by the way that you come across over the phone and in person.
If your ex feels nothing for you at the moment and you say something like that to her, she’s not going to say, “Wow! He loves me so much – I should go back to him!” However, if you’ve been making her feel attracted to you and you say that, she will then think, “Hmmm…I guess I do feel differently about him now…I’m not sure what to do.” At that point, she will more likely to say, “Yes” when you ask her to catch up with you in person for a quick meet up to say hi.
At the meet up, you can then get her respect back, make her feel more attraction and move towards a hug, kiss, sex and then begin seeing each other again. If you want to learn what to say and do at each step of that process, I recommend that you watch my awesome, proven to work program, Getting Her Back Although getting her back might seem impossible to you right now because she is is already dating someone else, if you are prepared to do what it takes, it is entirely possible to get her to dump her new boyfriend and come back to you.
If that is what you want to achieve, here are 3 important things you should do as soon as possible: 1. Understand what caused her to break up with you. In most cases, a woman will only break up with her man when he stops making her feel the way she wants to feel. She might put up with feeling horrible for a while, but if it goes on for too long and he ignores her hints that she’s feeling unhappy, she will eventually pull the pin and break up with him.
For example: If a man continues to neglect his woman or place her needs last or close to last, she will eventually get tired of being treated that way. Some women will put up with that if a guy is very attractive and appealing in other ways, but most women can’t stand being treated like that forever. Likewise, if a man becomes too clingy and jealous and tries to control or suppress her, she will naturally lose attraction and respect for him and she will look for ways to let him know.
However, despite the seemingly obvious problems with the relationship, a woman will rarely come out and say what’s really bothering her. Instead, she might begin to nag and complain by saying things like, “You’re so lazy, you never help around the house,” or “You’re always hanging out with your friends playing those stupid video games! Why don’t you grow up?” etc.
This is her way of saying “I feel like you’re taking me for granted” or “You’re neglecting me and you’re making me feel like I have to be the one who has to take the lead and be the grown up in the relationship.” Alternatively, she may start opening herself up to meeting and hooking up with a new guy who can make her feel the way she wants to feel. She might feel like it’s not worth the effort to nag and complain because her man clearly doesn’t have much of an idea on how to make her feel the way she really wants to feel.
So, before you can get your ex back you have to understand the real reasons that caused her to lose love and attraction for you. By understanding the true cause of her unhappiness, you can then change those exact things and become the type of man she really wishes you would be.
When you contact her and see her in person, she will be able to pick up on the fact that you really have changed in the ways that are the most important to her. 2. Fix your issues and improve yourself. A common mistake that guys make is when they realize what they did wrong in a relationship, they then rush to get in touch with their ex and make promises to change if she comes back.
Saying, “I now know what I did wrong. If you come back to me I promise to change” is only going to push her closer to the guy she is now dating. By telling her you WILL change you’re showing her that you still haven’t fully understood her needs and now that she’s already got a new man who is, at least for the moment, giving her what she needs, why should she give up the ‘sure thing” for a promise that might never be kept? If, on the other hand, you put in some effort to fix your issues (e.g.
insecurity, commitment issues, neediness, etc) before you contact her, you will be making it easier for her to connect with the old feelings of love and respect that she once had for you. By seeing a new and improved version of you, it’s only natural that her negative emotions towards you will change and she will open up to the idea of being with you again.
3. Get her on the phone to arrange a meet up. These days, a lot of guys waste too much time and energy hiding behind text messages to women. This applies to guys who are trying to get dates with new women and guys who are trying to get an ex back. When a woman has broken up with you and has told you she hates you or not to bother her, it’s because she perceives you as being needy and desperate.
So, if you text her for any other reason than to get her on the phone to arrange a meet up, she will simply assume you’re still being needy and annoying and she will ignore you. Why? According to many studies conducted by social scientists and psychologists, most of the communication between two humans is comprised of body language and tonality. So, when you send a text to your ex, because she can’t see your body language or hear your tonality, she has to guess at how you’re really feeling when you’re texting her.
If she has a low opinion of you at the moment, she will usually guess that you’re being an insecure, needy guy who can’t deal with the fact that she’s already dating someone else…and she will then feel even more repelled by you. So, don’t waste time texting your ex! The only time you should text her is to get her on the phone so that you can make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you.
When you make her feel that (which is 100x times easier to do on a phone call than via text), she will then more likely to say, “Yes” to meeting up with you in person. Dealing With the Pain of Losing Her It can really hurt a guy’s self-esteem and feelings of self-worth when he finds out that the woman he loves is already dating someone else. Part of the reason it hurts so much is that it can make you feel insecure about yourself as a man and your ability to attract new, quality women.
For example, a guy may ask himself: • How could she move on so quickly after we broke up? • Did she ever truly love me? • Was that real love or was she just with me because it was convenient for a while?
• What if other women don’t feel attracted to me after the initial buzz of a new relationship wears off? Will they break up with me too? • Will I get rejected when I approach new women and how will that make me feel? Will I feel even worse and end up avoid women for years while I try to get over my ex?
• What if my ex thinks that I’m a loser and laughs at me because I can’t get another woman while she’s already found another guy? These types of questions (and more) can be going through a guy’s mind if his confidence has taken a dent after being dumped by his girl.
How about you? How are you feeling about not having your ex in your life? Do you feel like you are good enough for her or other hot women? Here’s the thing… A big part of getting your ex back and attracting new women is having confidence in your sex appeal.
You’ve got to know that you’re more than good enough for your ex and other hot women and if you don’t have that type of confidence, you need to begin building it up.
Are You Ready to Take the Next Step in Your Journey? Whether you decide to get your ex back or find yourself a better, hotter woman; building up your confidence and improving your ability to attract women is the key. This is a great opportunity for you to become the type of man that you’ve always wanted to be around women and your ex. Rather than saying, “My ex is already dating someone else” and feeling like all hope is lost, decide to get motivated and start taking the action required to begin your new and improved life as a man.
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