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Okay, this might sound kind of bad but i'm telling the truth not trying to be mean, but if your ex is dating your best friend then there's two things that you need to do, but getting your ex back is not one of them.
1st off, if your ex really cared about you he wouldn't be dating your best friend. A … nd 2nd, your best friend is not a friend at all. That's like the number one rule that best friends should never break. The two things that you should and need to do is cut off "friendship"with both parties because they were never truly your friends. Very awkwardly . That is a low-percentage move, if ever there was one..
Since you have an ex-fiancÃ©, we can assume that you or he broke it off, and since breakups of engagements are rarely on good terms, we can assume that you are putting yourself in the position to be around your ex more tha … n you -- or he -- would like or need to be.. Why put yourself through that?. Further, it is possible that your relationship with ex's best friend will strain if not destroy his relationship with him.
Is that your goal? If it is, shame on you. If not, then what are you doing?. Assuming your relationship with your ex's friend is not the cause of your breakup, then do yourself a favor and stop pursuing him. There are plenty of other guys out there who don't come with that kind of excess baggage. You need to talk to your best friend first. If your best friend tells you it's okay, you still need to check with their friends and family.
Ask your friend's siblings first (sometimes the parents could be mad at you for asking). Ask the sibling if they know if the best friend is still upset about th … e breakup. Consider what the sibling has said and ask the best friend's friends as well. The sibling and friends are going to give you a more truthful answer than the best friend will because the best friend will most likely tell you that it's okay even if they aren't ready yet.
If you get the okay, make sure to wait at least a week or so. If you start dating a day later or even the day of, you could seriously upset the best friend and make them feel unloved. Ask yourself if the guy/girl is worth messing up the friendship you have with your friend. Just remember, this person might be with you for a couple months but your friendship could last forever. Don't try to hurt anyone's feelings, the best friend or the ex. Well that depends if you have a problame with it. If you do tell your friend that you fell really uncomfortable with her dating your ex, that it makes her upset.
If she really is a good friend she'll understand, Im not saying she'll break up with him, but mabey she'll stop talking about him in front … of you, or mabey spend a bit more time with you to show that she is still and will always be your friend. If she takes it the wrong way, and says your just jelous, ten try and explain that your just a bit uncomfortable and she still is mad at you, then shes not a true friend. Its not your fault you feel this way.
Mabey tell a true friend you can trust how you feel, but dont speak badly about your friend. hope it works out You let them be happy together. There is a chance they are doing it to make you jealous, in which case, you leave them alone.
Best of luck, try to pay attention to more important things. My best friends are doing the same.Chances are they are going to break up sometime.My other friend gave me the … advice to just let them be.They both told me and my other friend they both want to break up with eachother.So it works.My friend and I said they should just end it already... It may be a good idea to just step away from the both of them.
I've been in this situation twice, with the same ex. Both times, I got the same bull from the "friend," saying things like "this is killing me," and "I love you like a brother." Now, granted, you should take into account how long you d … ated this girl, and how serious it was.
But, for me, the best option was to just walk away. that is a really tough one to get over just as you have got overyou past boyfriend your BEST friend than gets something going withthem. I bet what you are thinking at the moment "some friend she turnedout to be!" But then your just as bad try to support her without getting toinvolved try to distance … yourself when she and your ex aretogether.
Hang with other friends until you feel ready the lastthing you want to do is break friends with your best friend becauseit just makes you look jealous. If your best friend is dating your ex boyfriend, then your best friend shouldn't be called your best friend. Or your ex could just be using your best friend to make you seem jealous.
If it hurts too much to think about him, then you should give back your gifts from him(if you have any) so it won't r … emind you of him. But you shouldn't do that for revenge or to make him feel bad.
If you and your ex are becoming good friends again, you should just keep those gifts and think of it as a gift from a guy friend. If she/ he is your best friend, then they would accept your judgement, and respect your choice. You might want to ask a relative or friend that has gone through that situation from one side or the other, and see the difference.
Or, look at it through your best friends perspective. How would you feel … seeing your best friend dating your ex? Good luck!
would you let your best friend date your ex - How would you feel if your best friend dated your ex?
Southern Ballerina Před 21 dnem But like it depends on his personality...one ex was just absolutely terrible I wouldn't want anyone to date him. The other guy...well we had a little problem but for the most part she could date him.
As long as he doesn't get obsessed with either of us...which hes known to do...like be healthy about it •
i guess if its someone you didnt really care for much like if you dated for a week but if its someone you were with seriously then no I agree with this to a point. But because you are no longer with that person you do not have control over their romantic life and in the end if they want to be with someone you shouldn't stand in their way. I agree with this to a point. But because you are no longer with that person you do not have control over their romantic life and in the end if they want to be with someone you shouldn't stand in their way.
no you shouldnt but also i would drop that friend because i couldnt be friends with someone dating an ex i was seriously in love with I'm fine with my friend dating my ex, but I would never date my friend's ex. Imagine how awkward it'd be when the three of you are in the same room. *insert owl sound.mp3* Edit: But if my ex cheated on me with that friend, then we're not friends. I'd happily drop a snake.
Edited by Blue_Knight, 14 November 2017 - 01:32 AM.
Dating Your Ex’s Best Friend