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T.I.C.K.S. Rule for Safe Babywearing • With newborns, keep in mind that airway should be monitored closely as there is a very real risk of suffocation if baby were to assume a position where its chin is touching its chest. Read the section below titled, "." • With infants in soft structured carriers, use only a forward carry with baby facing in position making sure that baby's head and neck are fully supported with two vertical finger widths between baby's chin and chest.
Once baby's neck is strong enough to support their head themselves (typically about 4 months), you can use a face-out position. • Always double-check that all buckles and knots are securely fastened • Never drive a car or ride a bicycle while wearing baby • Never drink hot liquids, such as coffee or tea, when wearing baby Preventing Falls One key safety consideration is how securely baby is carried. A fall from chest height is very dangerous for a baby. Baby should be closely held to the parent, and young babies should be provided a high back that fully supports baby's head and neck.
• If you need to pick something up, bend at the knee, not at the hip, so baby stays upright. Bending over at the torso while holding baby in a carrier brings risk of a backdive fall. • Fabric should support baby's entire back to ensure they are securely seated and supported in the carrier.
If a baby does not have control of head and neck yet, the fabric should also support the back of baby's head. Start-off Keeping One or Two Hands on Baby If you are new to baby wearing, or just started with a new type of carrier, take time to learn how to use it appropriately to ensure that baby is positioned both closely and securely inside.
We recommend keeping one or two hands on baby at all times until you get used to a carrier, and are certain that all buckles and ties are secure. Over time, as you get comfortable with the carrier, you'll be able to have one or both hands free. Supporting Head and Neck Until baby's neck is strong enough to hold its head up on its own, baby's head and neck should be properly supported. This milestone typically occurs around four months of age.
Do not attempt a front carry facing out position until baby has the strength to comfortably hold up their head on their own.
Most babies younger than this are usually content being snuggled facing in right up against mom or dad's chest anyway. A back carry position offers reduced support for baby, and the parent can't see what is going on with baby. As a result, back carry positions are not recommended until baby is a bit older, at least 6 months old, and many parents use front carry positions exclusively until baby is a toddler, which we feel is wise. Maintaining Baby's Airway Frequent care should always be taken with regard to maintaining an infant's airway in any baby carrier.
Use extra care with infants under 4 months old and babies with colds or respiratory problems. Baby's face should be visible to you when baby wearing and head close enough to kiss. Be certain that their airway is never obstructed, either by your body or the carrier itself. Baby's nose and chin should be clear of fabrics and positioned comfortably keeping baby's chin away from touching its chest slightly extended, at least least two adult finger widths.
Until baby has good head and neck control, positioning its head turned to one side or the other with cheek resting against the chest while in the front carry facing in position (that is, facing the parent) can help avoid this airway compromising chin to chest position. Several sling type carriers have been recalled in the last few years because when used incorrectly, they can pose a suffocation hazard to young infants. Protecting Baby's Hips One thing you'll notice when your pediatrician examines your newborn, is that they will perform a test of baby's hips.
What they are looking for is symptoms of hip dysplasia, which is a fairly common development issue. The International Hip Dsyplasia Institute is a good source of information on how . They also cover related topics such as proper swaddling, and guidelines for car seats.
Most hip development issues occur in the first 4 months of a newborn's life. Thus, special care should be taken with young babies. Baby wearers should allow for frequent breaks from the carrier so that baby can move its hips, knees, and the rest of the body around freely. The diagram above shows illustrates how keeping baby's hips flexed at an angle, is healthier than a straight-legged position. Some people interpret the "not recommended" as meaning the BabyBjorn, however, in our tests we validated the claims of BabyBjorn that their carrier maintains healthy angles for hips.
What is Hip Dysplasia? The International Hip Dysplasia Institute diagram above shows how keeping baby's hips flexed at an angle, is healthier. Keeping a newborns legs straight for a sustained period of time can contribute to hip dysplasia issues. Proper swaddling practices and baby wearing positions are important for healthy hip development.
The hip joint is commonly referred to in medical jargon as a "ball and socket joint," meaning the superior portion of the femur called the femoral head has a rounded shape like a ball which fits neatly into the rounded cup-shaped area of the pelvis called the acetabulum. At birth, a large portion of a newborn's partially developed hip joint is comprised of soft cartilage. The above illustration from The International Hip Dysplasia Institute highlights the key difference between the basic anatomy of an infant's hip compared to an adult's hip.
Additionally, inside the womb and upon birth, newborn's joints are flexible and lax, the hips being especially prone to dislocating. Certain factors such as a family history of hip dysplasia or breech positioning, increase the risk of an infant having developmental hip dysplasia.
However, chronic poor positioning in the first 4-6 months of life, can be a leading contributor as well. By 4-7 months of life, a large portion of this cartilage has turned to bone, increasing hip stability greatly. Does the BabyBjorn Cause Hip Dysplasia? If you google around and read blogs and comments on the BabyBjorn, it is not uncommon to find bloggers who who are convinced that the BabyBjorn causes hip dysplasia.
We've attempted to research this in the medical community to determine if there is real data to support this assertion. Our conclusion is that this is a myth. We looked at hip angles in BabyBjorn carriers to see if we could see a hip dysplasia issue. We did not. However, we did feel the Beco Baby Gemini offered superior ergonomics. From left to right: BabyBjorn, Beco Gemini, Baby Bjorn, Beco Gemini While we concluded that the manufacturer's claims that the BabyBjorn does not cause hip development issues are true, we have also concluded that the the best ergonomic positioning for hip development are not offered by the BabyBjorn Original but rather by competing carriers such as the .
The Beco Gemini offer a wider seat, increased hip angles, and the ergonomic benefits of their design are particularly significant for the front-carry facing-out position with older babies (6-12+ months); which is the weakest ergonomic position for the BabyBjorn in our testing. The 11 minute video below was put out by BabyBjorn, and features Dr. Amanda Weiss Kelly, a board certified pediatrician on staff at University Hospitals Rainbow Babies & Children's Hospital, and an expert in infant musculoskeletal health & wellness.
While the fact that BabyBjorn sponsored this video had us skeptical, we find nothing in it that is misleading or appears to be medically inaccurate. Dr. Kelly does a good job of explaining infant hip development and hip dysplasia in the video. She also covers spinal issues. At 4 min 50 sec into the video, she addresses issue of whether the Bjorn is a cause of hip dysplasia. She notes there is "no evidence the front carriers [such as BabyBjorn] in any way contribute to developmental hip dysplasia." We concur.
She goes further to note that the hip angles in the carrier are proper for hip development, and even match angles considered therapeutic. In the closing minutes, she addresses carrying postions, using facing-in for a newborn, and then switching to facing out once they can hold their head up (typically 4 months). One thing Dr. Kelly does not mention in the above video, at 10 min 25 sec when talking about front carry facing-out positions, is that the hip angles in the BabyBjorn Original get progressively lower as baby ages; as many people have observed, older babies legs dangle noticably in the BabyBjorn.
While most hip development risk is in the first 4 months, significant hip development continues in months 4-7, and some through month 12; reducing hip angles as baby gets older in the front-carry facing-out position is not ideal ergonomically. This may be counteracted by the fact that extended carry times with older babies in the BabyBjorn are uncomfortable due to back and shoulder strain, thus while an older babies legs may be dangling more than ideal, they are usually not dangling for long.
In contrast, competing carriers such as the Beco Gemini continue to retain good hip angles in the front-carry facing-out position, with much higher comfort for parents, even with older babies. Sling-type Carriers and Risks of Suffocation The in the last few years regarding the potential suffocation hazard they present young infants, especially in the first 4 months. Inspired by 14 deaths since 1998, the CPSC also produced a helpful 3 minute video which urges parents to use extra caution with slings and cites key safety risks to be aware of: The International Hip Dysplasia institute diagram above shows how keeping baby's hips flexed at an angle, is healthier.
Keeping legs straight for a sustained period of time in the first year is known to increase risk of hip dysplasia issues. We understand the perspective of many passionate sling fans, and it is certainly the case that by paying attention to the safety tips, many parents have safely used and enjoyed wearing their baby in a sling. However, given these two risks, we do not recommend sling-type carriers for babies in the newborn to 4 months age range.
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VIDEO A 3D look at how conception happens. Are some sexual positions better for making babies than others?You may have heard that some positions, such as your partner on top (missionary position), are better than others for conception. In fact, there’s no evidence to back these theories up. Experts just haven’t done the research yet. What experts have done, though, is to use scanning to reveal what’s going on inside when you’re doing the deed.
Some brave couples volunteered to be scanned using magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) while having sex. This research looked at two positions: the missionary position and doggy style (Schultz et al 1999, Faix et al 2002). (Doggy style being when you’re on all fours, and your partner enters you from behind). Common sense tells us that these positions allow deep penetration and are likely to place sperm right next to your cervix (the opening of your uterus).
The MRI scans confirm that the tip of the penis reaches the recesses between the cervix and walls of the vagina in both these sexual positions. The missionary position ensures the penis reaches the recess at the front of the cervix.
The rear entry position reaches the recess at back of the cervix (Faix et al 2002). It’s amazing what some experts spend their time doing, isn’t it? It may be that other positions, such as standing up, or the woman on top, may be just as good for getting the sperm right next to the cervix. We just don’t know yet. So, in the meantime, and keep it fun while you’re trying to conceive. Do I have to have an orgasm to conceive?Obviously, it’s very important for your partner to reach orgasm if you are trying for a baby-although sperm can even leak out before the point of ejaculation.
There is no evidence, however, that you need to orgasm to conceive. The female orgasm is all about pleasure and satisfaction. It doesn’t really help to get the sperm to the fallopian tubes and the egg (Levin 2002, Redelman 2006). Gentle contractions in your uterus can help the sperm along, but these happen without you having an orgasm (Levin 2002).
So, it’s really not vital for you to reach orgasm after your partner, or even to reach orgasm at all, for you to conceive. Are there any sex positions that can help us conceive a boy or girl?There is no evidence, although !
According to one, having sex with the woman on top will lead to a girl, while making love with the man on top will produce a boy. For more on the techniques that actually work, see our article .
Should I stay lying down afterwards?It won’t hurt to try it. The semen is more likely to stay in your vagina and around your cervix than if you get up straight away. However, there are millions of sperm in every ejaculation, so there should be plenty in your vagina even if you do stand up straight afterwards.
If you have the time and the inclination, it may be worth staying in bed for up to half an hour after having sex. You could also try lying on your back with your hips raised on a pillow to encourage the sperm through the cervix, uterus and into your fallopian tubes. The caveat is that this is not a good idea if you’re prone to and have been advised by your doctor to empty your bladder straight after sex.
Another trick that some women swear by is lying on your back and bicycling in the air with your legs for a few minutes after sex. If nothing else (and no, there is no evidence one way or another), it should give you and your partner a good laugh. And what could be more conducive to successful baby-making than ? The main thing to remember when trying to conceive is that having can really help. If you’ve been trying to conceive for a year or more without success (or if you’re 35 or older and have been trying for a short while), or your periods are irregular, it’s best to see your doctor.
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Breastfeeding, one of the most natural acts in the world, takes practice. Learning how to hold and support your baby in a comfortable position for you calls for coordination — and patience. Yet finding a nursing hold that works for you and your infant is well worth the effort.
After all, the two of you will spend hours every day. Here are some time-tested positions to try, plus tips to make nursing go smoothly. Also read about . The cradle hold This classic breastfeeding position requires you to cradle your baby's head with the crook of your arm.
Sit in a chair that has supportive armrests or on a bed with lots of pillows. Rest your feet on a stool, coffee table, or other raised surface to avoid leaning down toward your baby. Hold her in your lap (or on a pillow on your lap) so that she's lying on her side with her face, stomach, and knees directly facing you. Tuck her lower arm under your own. If she's nursing on the right breast, rest her head in the crook of your right arm.
Extend your forearm and hand down her back to support her neck, spine, and bottom. Secure her knees against your body, across or just below your left breast. She should lie horizontally, or at a slight angle. Best for: The cradle hold often works well for full-term babies who were delivered vaginally. Some mothers say this hold makes it hard to guide their newborn's mouth to the nipple, so you may prefer to use this position once your baby has stronger neck muscles at about 1 month old.
Women who have had a cesarean section may find it puts too much pressure on their abdomen. Also known as the cross-cradle hold, this position differs from the cradle hold in that you don't support your baby's head with the crook of your arm. Instead, your arms switch roles. If you're nursing from your right breast, use your left hand and arm to hold your baby. Rotate his body so his chest and tummy are directly facing you. With your thumb and fingers behind his head and below his ears, guide his mouth to your breast.
Best for: This hold may work well for small babies and for infants who have trouble . The clutch or football hold As the name suggests, in this position you tuck your baby under your arm (on the same side that you're nursing from) like a football or handbag. First, position your baby at your side, under your arm. She should be facing you with her nose level with your nipple and her feet pointing toward your back.
Rest your arm on a pillow in your lap or right beside you, and support your baby's shoulders, neck, and head with your hand. Using a C-hold (see below), guide her to your nipple, chin first. But be careful — don't push her toward your breast so much that she resists and arches her head against your hand. Use your forearm to support her upper back.
Best for: You may want to try this hold if you've had a Cesarean section (to avoid having the baby rest on your stomach). And if your baby is small or has trouble , the hold allows you to guide her head to your nipple.
It also works well for women who have large breasts or flat nipples, and for mothers of twins. To nurse while lying on your side in bed, ask your partner or helper to place several pillows behind your back for support.
You can put a pillow under your head and shoulders, and one between your bent knees, too. The goal is to keep your back and hips in a straight line. With your baby facing you, draw him close and cradle his head with the hand of your bottom arm.
Or, cradle his head with your top arm, tucking your bottom arm under your head, out of the way. If your baby needs to be higher and closer to your breast, place a small pillow or folded receiving blanket under his head. He shouldn't strain to reach your nipple, and you shouldn't bend down toward him. You may need to lift your breast, with your fingers underneath, so he can reach comfortably.
Best for: You may want to nurse lying down if you're recovering from a cesarean or difficult delivery, sitting up is uncomfortable, or you're nursing in bed at night or during the day.
Tips for every nursing position Support your body. Choose a comfortable chair with armrests, and use pillows — lots of them — to lend extra support your back and arms. (Most couches aren't supportive enough to sit on while breastfeeding.) Stick a few under your feet, too, to avoid bending toward your baby.
A footstool, coffee table, or stack of books works just as well. A pillow or folded receiving blanket on your lap can also keep you from hunching over. Whichever nursing position you use, be sure to bring your baby to your breast, rather than the other way around. Support your breasts. Your breasts get bigger and heavier during lactation. As you nurse, use your free hand to support your breast with a C-hold (four fingers underneath the breast at 9 o'clock with your thumb on top at 3 o'clock) or a V-hold (support your breast between your splayed index and middle fingers).
Note: It's important to keep your fingers at least 2 inches behind the nipple and areola so that your baby doesn't suck on them instead.
Support your baby. Feeling comfortable and secure will help your baby nurse happily and efficiently. Use your arm and hand, plus pillows or a folded receiving blanket, to support your baby's head, neck, back, and hips and keep them in a straight line. You can her or gently hold her arms by her side to make nursing easier. Vary your routine. Experiment to find a that you find most comfortable.
Many women find that the best way to avoid getting is to regularly alternate breastfeeding holds. Because each hold puts pressure on a different part of your nipple, you may avoid getting , too. Another tip: If you from first at every feeding, you'll . Relax, then nurse. Take a few deep breaths, close your eyes, and think peaceful, calming thoughts. Keep a tall, cool glass of water, milk, or juice on hand to drink while you breastfeed — staying hydrated helps you produce milk.
Time to stop? Ideally, your when he's drained one or both breasts. If you need to change your baby's position, switch him to the other breast, or end his feeding for any reason, gently insert your finger into the corner of his mouth. A quiet "pop" means you've broken the suction (which can be remarkably strong!), and you can pull him away.
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